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Updated Sep 09, 202430 Meaningful 35th Anniversary Gifts They'll Love and Appreciate
Three and a half decades of marriage deserves a special something.
Photos, clockwise: CaitlynMinimalist, The Sill, Williams Sonoma, TheJadeMine
Congratulations on a love that still thrives at 35! This impressive marriage milestone deserves a meaningful 35th anniversary gift that reflects your enduring bond. After three and a half decades together, though, it's understandable if you've run out of great gift ideas. Lucky for you, that's where we can help.
Each year of wedded bliss is assigned traditional and modern gifting themes that you can incorporate into your present. Additionally, there are plenty of alternative options to consider if you'd rather buy off-theme. Whatever route you choose, we have you covered with our round-up of the best 35-year anniversary gifts for him, her or them.
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Traditional 35th Anniversary Gifts
The big 3-5 feels like a particularly major milestone, so what's the traditional gift to celebrate it? The answer is coral! This traditional 35th anniversary gift carries deep symbolic meaning that resonates with the journey of a 35-year marriage. Its endurance against the relentless forces of the ocean parallels the resilience and strength developed over decades of shared experiences and challenges. The vibrant colors and intricate structures of coral also reflect the beauty and complexity of a relationship that has matured and deepened over time. Just as coral reefs require protection to thrive, a lasting marriage flourishes through nurturing and safeguarding its foundation of love and commitment.
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Given the critical importance of coral reef conservation today, explore coral-inspired gifts in lieu of the actual material. Our curated list features ocean-themed items and peachy-orange-colored presents—all perfect choices for celebrating your 35th wedding anniversary with your partner, friends or parents, while also supporting environmental awareness.
Coral Framed Rose Quartz Pendant
Photo: Kendra Scott
Combining the warmth of rose quartz with a coral-inspired frame, this stunning jewelry piece is a meaningful choice for celebrating decades of love and commitment. Its multi-strand design not only adds sophistication but also achieves a trendy layered look without the hassle of multiple necklaces. It's a standout gift for a 35th wedding anniversary, ideal for those who appreciate statement accessories. (Psst, pair it with matching drop earrings for a perfectly coordinated anniversary ensemble.)
Pink and Orange Roses
Photo: BloomsyBox
If you're looking for a classically romantic gift for your spouse, you can't go wrong with a stunning bouquet of flowers. Opt for this vibrant bunch of coral roses, symbolizing the traditional 35th anniversary theme. BloomsyBox ensures these hand-tied blossoms are delivered right to your doorstep on the date of your choosing (i.e. your anniversary), guaranteeing the freshest bouquet without the last-minute rush to the store. For an extra special touch, you can include a pre-recorded video message that your partner will receive digitally right after their flowers arrive.
Monogrammed Coral Handbag
Photo: Mark & Graham
This coral-colored leather bag is a bold accessory to give your spouse as a 35-years-of-marriage gift. It's handcrafted from soft Italian leather and has an internal zippered section that divides the bag into three compartments so they can organize all of their daily essentials. You can even have it monogrammed in gold foil for a luxe touch. To really up the ante, hide a little surprise inside, like a handwritten anniversary card or tickets for a fun experience you can enjoy together.
Recycled Ocean Plastic Watch
Photo: TRIWA
Here's an ocean-inspired gift that's stylish, useful and mindful of the environment. This cool watch is made from 100% recycled ocean plastic and is designed to reduce sea pollution, which can harm coral reefs and other underwater creatures. It comes in a wide variety of bright colors (including coral, of course) for a traditional 35th wedding anniversary gift for your wife, husband or partner that's right on theme.
Personalized Coral Towel
Photo: Dock & Bay
Are you lucky enough to have the sea and sand in your backyard? A trip to a nearby beach is a fitting date idea for your 35th anniversary. Complete the outing with a large, quick-drying towel featuring—you guessed it—coral stripes. It can even be personalized with the recipient's initials or name. Make sure to grab two if you're shopping for a couple, or simply want a new towel for yourself too!
Wooden Coral-Inspired Coasters
Photo: DenversDesigns
A chic new set of coasters is a great anniversary gift idea for a spouse or couple who loves to host. This handmade wooden gift set features a unique coral cutout design that'll add an aquatic element to their coffee table. Choose between a set of four or six for a practical and thematic 35-year anniversary present.
Coral-Colored Wine Glasses
Photo: Saks Fifth Avenue
These coral-colored wine glasses are a trendy, on-theme option that'll impress the wine connoisseur in your life. They're made from hand-blown blush-colored glass that'll bring a pop of color to any serving of bubbly or vino. Pair them with a bottle of your favorite wine for a romantic 35th anniversary date night at home.
Glass Art Sea Coral Decorative Bowl
Photo: TheGlassRainbowShop
Bring the serene beauty of the ocean into your home with this coral gift for him, her or them. This exquisite decorative bowl showcases delicate lacy patterns reminiscent of coral. Symbolic of your 35-year connection, it's ideal for displaying fruits or as a standalone piece of art, bringing coastal charm to any space. Available in a variety of pretty hues, there's likely one that'll complement your existing home decor beautifully.
Coral Quilt Set
Photo: Target
A peaceful night's sleep is one of the greatest gifts of all, so here's an anniversary gift to help you and your spouse catch some quality Zzz's. This coral-colored bedding set includes a soft quilt and one or two shams (depending on the purchased size), all made from 100% cotton. It's perfect for layering over the bed for extra warmth or adding a splash of color to your existing bedroom color scheme.
Coral Tea Kettle
Photo: Caraway
Tea for two, anyone? If you and your partner like to chat over a cuppa, this coral tea kettle will help you brew it in style. It's made from stainless steel and non-toxic materials for boiled water that's clean and chemical-free every time. Not only that, it's compatible with all kinds of stovetops, including electric, induction and gas. To enhance this gift, consider pairing it with their favorite tea bags so they can enjoy using it right away.
Modern 35th Anniversary Gifts
The 35th anniversary has both traditional and modern gifting themes, with jade representing the modern choice. So if a coral gift doesn't feel quite right, consider a jade gift for him, her or them. This prized material symbolizes good fortune, love and wisdom, making it a perfect tribute to a happy marriage. While commonly associated with green, jade stones also come in colors like white, lavender, yellow and even black. This variety is reflected in the numerous great jade anniversary gifts we've curated for you to explore below.
Handcrafted Jade Lovebirds Figurine
Photo: TheJadeMine
Nestle into a new chapter of your love story with this adorable figurine. The unique 35th wedding anniversary gift for couples or spouses depicts intricately carved lovebirds from genuine Canadian jade, known for its beauty and durability. Symbolizing love, fidelity and harmony, these lovebirds perfectly represent an enduring relationship. Whether displayed as a paperweight in a home office or cherished on a shelf, this hand-carved jade sculpture will forever remind them of the love and commitment they've shared over the years.
Jade-Colored Serving Bowl
Photo: Uncommon Goods
Pretty yet practical, this hand-thrown bowl is an excellent tribute to the modern 35-year anniversary symbol. Glazed in serene jade and brown tones, it features a romantic inscription circling the rim: "True love is not a destination, but a journey shared by the travelers on its path." Whether used for serving fresh fruit or displayed on a shelf, this bowl will be a constant reminder of your shared life journey with your partner.
Sunset Jade Succulent
Photo: The Sill
Celebrate your 35th anniversary with a gift that's a blooming testament to your love: a Sunset Jade plant. This beautiful succulent, known for its thick, fleshy green leaves with a hint of red around the edges, is a creative interpretation of the jade anniversary theme for her, him or them. Bonus: This species is often referred to as a "money plant" or "lucky plant," as it's believed to bring good fortune and prosperity. Easy to care for and resilient, it perfectly symbolizes a marriage that has thrived over the decades. The Sunset Jade plant not only adds a touch of natural beauty to a space but also carries the promise of good fortune and continued growth in a marriage.
Green Soundwave Wall Art
Photo: VoiceAndSound
Soundwave art is a creative and sentimental anniversary gift, particularly if your spouse is musically inclined. This unique piece is modeled off a soundwave from a tune you both love (like your wedding song or a track from the year you first met). Choose the jade green option to commemorate the modern 35th anniversary material, and have the piece framed for a display-worthy finish.
Coral Jade Wishing Bracelet
Photo: Uncommon Goods
While their wishes certainly came true 35 years ago when you two said "I do," your partner may have a few more dreams they hold dear. Let them know just how much you care about their goals and desires via this meaningful bracelet. The clasp doubles as a secret compartment for tucking a wish (or a romantic note) inside. Choose the coral jade option to stay on the jade theme or the grass agate to represent the gemstone's traditional rich green color.
Chunky Jade Hoop Earrings
Photo: CaitlynMinimalist
Who says diamonds are a person's best friend? Jade's here to give those sparklers a run for their money. These stunning hoops feature chunky jade stones, each carefully crafted to highlight the natural beauty and vibrant green hues of the gemstone. Whether worn casually or for a special occasion—like your anniversary date night—these earrings embody the love and connection you share, making them a cherished addition to your partner's jewelry collection.
Long-Lasting Jade Rose
Photo: The Forever Rose
For a love that has stood the test of time, choose a gift that does the same. This real rose is preserved at peak bloom in a durable, green-hued lacquer—capturing its natural beauty forever. The 35th-anniversary modern gifting theme isn't only represented in color, though. A genuine jade gemstone comes attached to the stem to further symbolize your enduring love. For an additional sentimental touch, engrave the stem and add on a bud vase so it's ready for display.
Jade-Hued Dinner Set
Photo: Williams Sonoma
Bring the jade theme to the kitchen table with this jewel-hued set of serving pieces. The unique color results from a firing process where mineral-infused glazes pool, deepen and diffuse, creating ombré shading, drizzles and painterly splashes that are enhanced by a high-gloss finish. The collection includes dinner plates, salad plates, cereal bowls, pasta bowls and mugs, ensuring you'll have all you need for any anniversary meal you may have planned.
Jade Anniversary Milestone Tree
Photo: KouinGemTrees
Celebrate how much your relationship has grown over the last 35 years with this gorgeous handmade table ornament shaped like a bonsai tree. The branches are made from copper wire and finished with delicate jade beads for a beautiful tribute to your latest marriage milestone. There's even an option to choose jade and coral beads for a gift for the 35th wedding anniversary that incorporates both traditional and modern themes. We bet your spouse will be so enchanted when they unwrap this symbolic gem.
Jade Facial Rolling Trio
Photo: Bloomingdale's
This set of jade facial rollers and skincare tools will be a practical and soothing addition to their vanity. The dual-ended face roller gently de-puffs the skin, while the spherical mini jade roller offers a targeted massage. Also included is a nifty gua sha tool to lift and contour the face. Ideal for a relaxing facial massage, the gift set is designed to help ease muscle tension and enhance the recipient's natural glow. (We bet you'll want to use 'em on your face, too!)
Unique 35th Anniversary Gifts
While the 35th wedding anniversary may be called the coral anniversary or the jade anniversary, rest assured that it's okay to shop outside of these themes. There are a few additional symbols related to the milestone from which you can draw inspiration, too. The designated 35th wedding anniversary stone is emerald, a dazzling green gem that symbolizes true love, loyalty and devotion. The 35th anniversary color is (unsurprisingly) coral, an alluring orange-pink shade that's said to heal and defend against harm. Most anniversary years are also associated with a particular flower. Sadly, though, there is no designated 35th wedding anniversary flower. But don't let that stop you from treating your spouse to a pretty bouquet! Coral, jade or emerald-hued blooms or greenery will keep you on the theme.
If you still want to skip themed gifts altogether, we've included some great alternative 35th anniversary gifts below that are just as meaningful. Whether it's a personalized experience, a sentimental piece of art or a luxurious spa day, there's something special to suit everyone's taste.
Sheet Music Wall Art
Photo: Canvas Vows
If you remember your first dance like it was yesterday, we've found a thoughtful 35th wedding anniversary gift that'll hit all the right notes. This sentimental wall art can be personalized with the sheet music of your first dance (or another tune you both love) for a unique and meaningful piece of decor. We bet your partner will be so delighted they'll be humming your romantic soundtrack for days on end.
Emerald Huggie Earrings
Photo: Brilliant Earth
If you want to splash out on some fine jewelry for your partner, why not take your cue from the 35th wedding anniversary gemstone? These emerald hoop earrings are simple yet elegant and a great pick for anyone who loves timeless accessories. Even better, they're made from ethically sourced lab-grown emeralds that are set in 14K yellow gold, which is sure to win over any eco-conscious (and stylish!) spouse.
Made-to-Measure Leather Jacket
Photo: The Jacket Maker
Make them feel effortlessly cool this anniversary by gifting them this luxe leather jacket. Crafted from premium full-grain black leather with a quilted viscose lining, it has a timeless appeal you'll both love. Available in standard sizes up to 4XL, it caters to a wide range of body types and, if you're on a time crunch, Prime delivery is available. But if your spouse is particular about fit and you're not shopping last minute, you can also have the jacket custom-made to their exact measurements.
Custom Closet Redesign
Photo: California Closets
After 35 years of collecting clothes, shoes, bags, sunglasses and more, a custom closet sounds like a perfect anniversary gift for you both. This personalized upgrade can uncover the hidden potential within your existing space, elevating the art of organization to a whole new level. California Closets will help design and build a wardrobe with space-saving options like specialized racks and clever accessories, ensuring you have room for even more treasures accumulated over the next few decades.
Personalized Photo Frame
Photo: Personalization Mall
Surprise your spouse with a treasured throwback photo presented in this beautiful frame. It can be personalized with your names, wedding date, anniversary milestone and a thoughtful message for a sweet and sentimental gift. If you'd prefer to use a more recent picture of you two, we suggest booking a photo session to celebrate your 35th anniversary. (Keep scrolling, *wink, wink*.)
Family Photoshoot
Photo: Flytographer
Here's an exciting 35th wedding anniversary gift for your parents or your spouse—just be prepared to smile for the camera! Commemorate the family and the magic you've made with a professional photoshoot. Flytographer makes it easy to find a skilled photographer in over 350 destinations worldwide. Book a session lasting from 30 minutes to two hours with the entire family or just your partner. They'll cherish the experience of being together and the photos that'll last a lifetime.
Indoor Smart Garden
Photo: Click & Grow
Whether you're shopping for a gardening novice or a seasoned pro, you can't go wrong with a smart indoor garden from Click & Grow. This handy device is designed to take care of plant watering, light and nutrients, providing a foolproof way to grow fresh herbs, veggies and flowers at home. It's a thoughtful 35th-anniversary gift that'll bring them plenty of satisfaction—and not to mention super fresh greens.
Eucalyptus Sheet Set
Photo: Sijo
This sheet set feels like sleeping on a cloud. It's made of sustainable eucalyptus fibers, which are not only super-soft but also cooling, moisture-wicking and allergy-friendly. They come in lots of colors to match your existing comforter or duvet, including a fitting emerald green and even a few different shades of coral-inspired pinks. The set includes a fitted sheet, 2 pillowcases and 1 optional top sheet.
Custom Reel Viewer
Photo: Uncommon Goods
If you're looking for a nostalgic gift to commemorate your 35-year union, this retro-inspired reel viewer from Uncommon Goods is guaranteed to give your partner all the feels. Choose your favorite digital photos to create your own made-to-order reel using the redemption code. Then, add it to the viewer and present it to your spouse so they click through each sentimental snapshot. Cue the happy tears.
Online Language Learning Classes
Photo: Babbel
Does your spouse have some free time on their hands? Consider gifting them a Babbel subscription to learn a new language. This engaging and practical gift offers online classes that fit into any schedule, making it easy to start speaking a new language confidently. Imagine the fun and bonding as you both practice together—perhaps in preparation of a future vacation. It's a fantastic 35th wedding anniversary idea that could lead to a 36th anniversary trip to a new country.
