25 Best Boyfriend Appreciation Gifts To Say "Thanks For Being You"

He'll love the surprise recognition.
Boyfriend appreciation gifts
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Updated Sep 25, 2024
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Hot take: There aren't enough gift-giving holidays in a year. Sure, you can spoil your partner on Valentine's Day, their birthday and your anniversary, but what if those special dates all fall within the same few months? Luckily, a boyfriend appreciation gift doesn't need a specific occasion. Whether you stumble upon something you know he'll love or simply want to say "You're amazing," an unexpected thank you gift for your boyfriend will show how much you value him and your relationship. So, keep the love flowing all year round with little surprises that show just how much he means to you. Here are our favorite small yet thoughtful gifts of appreciation for a boyfriend—many of which can be delivered in two days or less, so you can respond to his kind actions almost immediately. A message of appreciation for your boyfriend adds the perfect touch of sincerity to your present.

1. Celebrity Video Message

Cameo screenshot boyfriend appreciation gift
Photo: Cameo

You could simply tell your boyfriend "I love and appreciate you" or you could have his favorite celebrity do it for you. From actors and comedians to sports players and reality TV contestants, Cameo helps you connect with your boyfriend's favorite stars. Once you find the right celeb, you can request a personalized video message from them which can be ready in just 24 hours.

2. Fill-In-the-Blank Book

Fill-in-the-blank book boyfriend appreciation gift
Photo: Amazon

Here's a romantic gift that just keeps on giving; this fill-in-the-blank book helps you list all the reasons you love your boyfriend. Now, whenever he needs a mood boost, he can open it and read all the reasons you cherish him. Plus, since it's personalized by you, you can take the prompts in any direction you want—whether mushy, funny or flirty.

3. Custom Illustrated Portrait

Custom portrait boyfriend appreciation gift
Photo: PunoPrints

Ready in just six hours, this custom portrait makes the perfect wallpaper for his phone, laptop or tablet. Every time he checks for your texts, he'll be greeted by a charming illustration of the two of you. Simply send your favorite photo together to the Etsy seller to transform into a minimalist drawing with a background color of your choice. It comes as a digital file, but you can choose to receive it as a framed poster as well.

4. Custom Candy Box

Custom candy box boyfriend appreciation gift
Photo: Sugarwish

Let your boyfriend know you're sweet on him with Sugarwish. Choose a gift type and size—cookies, candy, popcorn and more—and they'll send him a personalized email or text so he can customize his box and enter his shipping address. It's easy-peasy for you, but yummy in the tummy for him.

5. Date Idea Book

Date idea book appreciation gift for boyfriend
Photo: Amazon

Want to show your boyfriend how much you care? Keep the spark alive with more dates and quality time together! These cards from The Adventure Challenge give you a host of mini date ideas that can all be completed at home (or close to it) with minimal prep in just 30 minutes. From enjoying food to playing games and having intentional conversations, this appreciation gift for your boyfriend promises to create countless memories.

6. Bouquet of Succulents

Succulent bouquet boyfriend appreciation gift
Photo: The Bouqs Co

Flowers are a universal symbol of beauty and appreciation that everyone can enjoy—even your boyfriend. This bouquet brings a touch of desert charm with stunning alstroemeria, solidago and aster accented with succulents. The succulent will outlast the cut flowers, serving as a lasting reminder of your love. Better still, The Bouqs offers same day and next day delivery.

7. Dipped Strawberries

Dipped strawberries boyfriend appreciation gift
Photo: 1-800-Flowers.com

We found the quickest way to make your boyfriend smile. These chocolate dipped strawberries are decorated to look like happy faces with a classic yellow color. Grab him six, 12 or 24 depending on his sweet tooth and if you're hoping he'll share!

8. Bluetooth Trackers

Bluetooth tracker boyfriend appreciation gift
Photo: Amazon

Sometimes the best boyfriend appreciation gifts are practical items he'll actually use. If he's always misplacing his keys or wallet, Tile trackers are a perfect solution. This set includes a slim tracker for his wallet and a keychain tracker for his keys. Using the Tile app, he can ring the trackers when they're within Bluetooth range, and view their last known location when they're out of range. Plus, he can find his phone by double-pressing the Tile button. Now, when he's scatterbrained or you're not around, he'll always be able to find his essentials.

9. Sleek Leather Wallet Phone Case

Sleek leather wallet phone case boyfriend appreciation gift
Photo: Amazon

This sleek accessory is a wallet and phone case in one—that means he only needs to remember one item when heading out. Crafted from recycled premium leather, it features a raised bezel that safeguards both the screen and camera, enhancing its practically. This appreciation gift proves that you know exactly what he needs for his lifestyle and fashion sense.

10. Embroidered Weekender Bag

Embroidered bag boyfriend appreciation gift
Photo: Personalization Mall

Another thing he needs to do is ditch his ratty backpack for something more refined. This personalized duffle bug is the perfect upgrade for your next romantic getaway. It has four pockets and is designed with durable polyester fabric, strong webbed handles and a shoulder strap to support heavy loads if he's an overpacker. Best of all, Personalization Mall offers express shipping so you can get this appreciation gift for your boyfriend quickly.

11. Military Wool Blanket

Military wool blanket boyfriend appreciation gift
Photo: Amazon

For the guy who makes you feel warm and fuzzy, say "thanks" with this versatile blanket. The extra-large wool throw is naturally fire-retardant and water-repellant, so it can keep you both nice and cozy whether you're on the couch or camping. Don't worry about it getting dirty on your outdoor adventures, it's machine-washable.

12. Weighted Stuffed Animal

Weighted stuffed animal boyfriend appreciation gift
Photo: GiveHugz

No matter your age, a stuffed companion can bring comfort and joy. Surprise your boyfriend with this adorable, fluffy sloth that's more than just a cuddly appreciation gift—it's designed to help him unwind. Weighing about four pounds, it's perfect for soothing stress, whether warmed in the microwave or chilled in the freezer. Plus, its arms open wide for a cozy hug whenever you're not there to give one yourself.

13. Concentrated Room Spray

Room spray boyfriend appreciation gift
Photo: Bath & Body Works

Personally, I don't need a reason to go into Bath & Body Works, but if I did, a small appreciation gift for my boyfriend would be it. My top pick is a room spray. With fantastic scents like White T-shirt, Flannel and Mahogany Teakwood, you can find a refreshing, incograting aroma with a robust, masculine edge. It's a clever way to say "Thanks for having me over every weekend."

14. Massage Oil

Massage oil boyfriend appreciation gift
Photo: Maude

Nothing says "I admire your hard work," quite like a coupon for a free back massage. Pair it with this skin-softening massage oil to create the at-home spa experience of his dreams. And since this is a gift to show your boyfriend you appreciate him, you won't make him return the favor—at least not today.

15. Lacey Lingerie

Lacey lingerie boyfriend appreciation gift
Photos: Cosabella

Lingerie can be a great appreciation gift for you boyfriend if your relationship has progressed to physical intimacy—or you're ready to take that step. It shows you're thinking about him in a personal way and want to enhance your connection. Cosabella offers a wide collection of luxury lingerie for both women and men, designed to make you feel confident and undeniably sexy.

16. Photo Projection Bracelet

Photo projection bracelet boyfriend appreciation gift
Photo: Myluckideas

If you're looking for a thoughtful thank you gift for your boyfriend after he plans a perfect date or an unforgettable couples vacation, consider this bracelet. While its design is minimalist, the pendant uniquely projects an image of the two of you when you look closely—perhaps from that special occasion. It's a beautiful way for him to wear his heart on his sleeve, keeping a hidden souvenir that reminds him of the wonderful times you've shared together.

17. Personalized Mini Gift Box

Personalized gift box boyfriend appreciation gift
Photo: Greetabl

Looking for a long-distance gift for your amazing boyfriend? Let Greetabl send him a thoughtful appreciation gift. Their customizable mini gift boxes let you personalize the packaging with a heartfelt note, photos of the two of you and fun clip art. You can then have it filled with a selection of delightful goodies like candy, candles, cozy socks and more. It's a charming way to bridge the distance and remind him how much you care.

18. Insulated Travel Mug

YETI travel mug boyfriend appreciation gift
Photo: YETI

Cold cups of coffee are not the move (unless they're iced, of course). This double-wall vacuum insulated, kitchen-grade stainless steel mug is the solution. The mouthful of terminology means his drink will stay hot or cold until the last sip, it's puncture and rust-resistant, and it's dishwasher-safe. It's just the supportive gift to give your boyfriend if he's starting a new job with a long commute or ahead of a big backpacking trip.

19. Global Coffee Subscription

Global coffee subscription boyfriend appreciation gift
Photo: Atlas Coffee Club

His love just keeps on giving, so reflect that gesture with this subscription membership as a clever "thank you for being my boyfriend" gift. Each month, Atlas Coffee Club will send him a bag of carefully curated beans from one of the best coffee growing regions in the world, allowing him to explore unique flavors and brewing methods right at home. This thoughtful gift not only fuels his coffee habit, but also adds an element of excitement and discovery to his morning thanks to the detailed tasting notes and information about each coffee region.

20. Movie-Scratch Off Poster

Movie scratch-off poster boyfriend appreciation gift
Photo: Amazon

Looking for a gift to show appreciation to your new boyfriend and express your excitement about your relationship? This interactive movie poster invites him to embark on a cinematic movie adventure with you, promising many memorable date nights ahead. With its scratch-off design featuring 100 iconic films, like "The Breakfast Club" and "The Matrix," you'll both get to unveil and enjoy each movie snuggled close together.

21. Beer and Snack Gift Crate

Beer and snack crate boyfriend appreciation gift
Photo: Gourmet Gift Baskets

This appreciation gift is for the man in your life who likes craft beers. The gift box—er, crate, really—is packed with four unique brews as well as delicious cheeses, savory sausage and beef jerky, and gourmet crackers. It's everything he needs for a chill Saturday after a big week.

22. Cozy Pullover

Nike hoodie boyfriend appreciation gift
Photo: Nike

He makes you feel so comfortable, and you want to return the love with your caring personality (and this cozy hoodie). Nike excels in crafting soft, stylish loungewear that effortlessly transitions from the couch to the pickleball court (or any activity he enjoys). This pullover comes in a variety of colors and is unisex, making it easy to snag one for yourself as well. Plus, a matching couple's gift demonstrates that you appreciate him as your boyfriend so much you want to shout it to the world by twinning.

23. Trendy Insulated Water Bottle

Insulated water bottle boyfriend appreciation gift
Photo: Amazon

Whether he's hitting the gym or heading out for a hike, this stylish reusable water bottle is a great thank you present for you boyfriend who always brings you along for the workout. With its double-walled insulation to keep drinks cold for hours and versatile spout (it can be tilted back for a big swig and has a straw for sipping upright), he'll be refreshed all day. It comes in a variety of fun colorways, so be sure to choose the hues that'll make it uniquely his.

24. Custom Engraved Couple's Keychains

Engraved couple's keychains boyfriend appreciation gift
Photo: BrezzaJewelry

What better way to show your appreciation than with a heartfelt message he can carry with him as a constant reminder of your love? This set of two keychains can be engraved with a custom message like "I love you more" on one and "I love you most" on the other. When placed together, they form a heart. Get ready for an "aww" moment from him—and everyone he shows it off to!

25. Touch Lamps

Touch lamp boyfriend appreciation gift
Photo: Amazon

On the days you can't be physically together, let your boyfriend know you're still thinking about him with a touch-sensitive friendship lamp. Sold in pairs, these lanterns create a special connection no matter where you are in the world. A simple tap on one lamp will light up both, sending a sweet signal to your partner. With over 250 color options, you can even assign different meanings to each hue, making every light a unique message from you.

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