28 Thoughtful Gifts for the Groom From His Mother

Your baby boy is all grown up!

Photo, clockwise: Bespoke Post, Etsy, The Knot Shop, Bean Box

Updated Jun 29, 2023

On a couple's wedding day, they're bound to receive several gifts from family and friends to celebrate their union. However, as the ever-important mom of the groom, you may feel inclined to give a special gift for the groom from his mother. In addition to your gift to both members of the couple from their wedding registry, you may choose to gift a bespoke gift for your son on the wedding day or other special wedding gift to show your kiddo that you're thinking of him. Whether you want to give your son a sentimental keepsake, special home goods or something related to his hobbies, finding the perfect present for your son as he enters this new chapter of life can feel overwhelming. Luckily, we've rounded up gift ideas to help inspire you during your search for the perfect groom gift from you (his mom) on what is sure to be a cherished day for the both of you.

1. Carry-On Suitcase

If the groom plans on a big honeymoon, he may need a carry-on for all his essential items. This four-wheel carry-on bag adds extra convenience, thanks to its 360-degree spin. And with TSA-safe locks and water-repellent zippers, this carry-on option is fail-proof.

$665 | The Knot

2. Massage Gun

Nothing causes stress like planning a wedding. Your son can melt away tension with this compact massage gun. He can pack it in his gym bag, suitcase or car for easy stress relief on the go.

$199 | The Knot

3. Noise-Canceling Headphones

From working out, to traveling, to busy days in the office, there's always an occasion where a pair of noise-canceling headphones comes in clutch. Any music lover will get plenty of use out of a high-quality pair of headphones. This particular pair actively blocks external noise and can provide up to 22 hours of playback, making them ideal for sons who are always on the go.

$299 | The Knot

4. Hometown Map Glass Set

If your son's marriage means he's leaving the nest, he'll appreciate these customized, hometown map glasses. Depending on your son's drink of choice, you can choose a set of two wine, beer or rocks glasses and the glassmaker can use nearly any city for the custom-printed map. Your son will enjoy the nostalgia with every sip with this personalized wedding gift.

From $50 | Uncommon Goods

5. Family Name Sign

Your son's wedding will bring together two families. Show them your excitement to expand your family with this custom family name sign that brings a sense of togetherness, pride and excitement to all be united as one. Include your son's wedding year to make it the perfect gift for your son on his wedding day.

From $79 | Canvas Vows

6. Engraved Flask Gift Set

Maybe he needs a little something to calm his nerves on the big day. This flask set (accompanied by his favorite spirit) is just the thing. This set allows you to personalize your gift, from adding a monogram to selecting the metal finish. Best of all, the elegant gift wrapping does the hard work for you and creates a mature, sleek gift any son will feel excited to receive.

$23 | The Knot Shop

7. Wedding Keepsake Box

Every wedding comes with keepsakes to hold on to: invitations, cards, photographs, dried flowers and favors. A special wedding keepsake box makes it easy for couples to keep and remember the mementos from their special day. This wedding gift for your son will allow him to preserve those special memories from one of the most exciting days of his life.

$105 | Savor

8. Cocktail Smoker

For the at-home mixologist, a cocktail smoker elevates drinks from amateur- to expert-level. All your son will need to do is craft their favorite sip, then place the hand-crafted smoker and smoking chips—which include tea, wood and spices—on top of the glass. Add a flame and he'll have a smoke-infused drink in seconds. Since it's so unique, it's truly one of the best wedding gifts around.

From $40 | Uncommon Goods

9. Engraved Lighter

A lighter makes a practical gift that's easily personalized. Add a monogram and your son's favorite metallic finish for a custom and celebratory gift for the groom from his mother. Since this gift is small and lightweight, you can also easily add it to a gift set or gift basket.

$19 | The Knot Shop

10. Custom Luggage Tag

If your son is planning a honeymoon getaway, he may need to pay careful attention to his luggage. This vegan leather luggage tag can easily attach to any suitcase for added peace of mind on trips near and far. With three colors to choose from, you can pick one that suits his style.

$35 | The Knot

11. Laser-Engraved Pen and Pencil Set

Looking for a gift for a son who's looking to spruce up his office? This executive set of engraved writing tools features a ballpoint pen, rollerball pen and mechanical pencil. The cherry wood finish and display box will add a sleek and professional look to your son's desk, and he'll have something to remember the special moments you shared together on his big day while he works away.

From $99 | Executive Gift Shoppe

12. Personalized Ring Tray

New bling alert! For many men, their wedding ring may be their first piece of jewelry to keep track of. Protect your son from losing his most prized possessions with this personalized, leather valet tray.

From $41 | Etsy

13. Swiss Army Knife

Swiss army knives have been a staple in the mother-to-son gift category for years. This particular knife will come in handy in all of life's everyday situations. Whether your son needs a can opener while making dinner or a screwdriver to fix a loose knob quickly, he'll thank you for this small, but mighty tool.

$52 | The Knot

14. Cocktail Bitters Set

If your son enjoys making cocktails or mocktails, bitters may be the ingredient needed to elevate his drinks to the next level. This set includes ten bitters in a range of flavors, including lavender, orange, black walnut and grapefruit. Your son will relish the opportunity to experiment and create custom, unique drinks for himself and his new spouse.

$42 | Bespoke Post

15. Personalized Toiletry Bag

Give your son the gift of organization with this toiletry bag. Whether he needs it on the go for travel or at home, this foldable kit will keep all his products in one place. Add a monogram for a personal touch and this toiletry kit becomes your son's must-have travel companion.

$20 | The Knot Shop

16. Set of Two YETI Tumblers

For the environmentally conscious son, consider gifting him a set of two tumblers. These tumblers replace using a water bottle and can easily be taken on the go. And with this set of two, he can leave one at the office and one at home.

$60 | The Knot

17. Coffee Subscription

If your son starts every morning with a cup of joe, consider gifting him a present that'll keep on giving: a coffee of the month club subscription. Each month, your son will receive a new blend of coffee from independent roasters around the world. He'll think of you each time he prepares a new brew. Subscription lengths range from three months to one year.

From $72 | Bean Box

18. Custom Pocket Watch

Who said the groom can't also have a "something new?" A pocket watch may seem old fashioned, but in fact, it's a timeless and elegant accessory that elevates any man's look. Gift your son this pocket watch before his wedding day for him to keep track of time and add a mature and classic element to his wedding day look.

$18 | The Knot Shop

19. Classy Tool Set

Looking for a practical gift from mother to son? Look no further than a set of tools. This 13-piece tool set will allow your son to tackle any DIY project in his new married life. From hanging wedding photos to assembling new furniture, this tool kit will have him covered. Plus, it's super aesthetically pleasing.

$150 | The Knot

20. Elegant Bar Cart

If your son enjoys entertaining guests, he'll certainly enjoy stocking his bar cart full of interesting liquors and glassware to impress his friends. The metal and glass construction of this round bar cart adds a modern, but elegant look that can fit into any home. Add in the convenient wheels and this makes the perfect gift for any young host.

$226 | The Knot

21. Wood and Marble Entertaining Set

Your son's new married life will likely include hosting dinner parties and get-togethers. Make your son the host who offers the most with this high-quality white marble and acacia wood serving set that includes coasters, a cheese tray and a wine chiller. You can add both your son and his new spouse's monograms, too. It'll also look super cool displayed on the aforementioned bar cart.

$167 | Mark & Graham

22. Custom Handkerchief

This wedding gift to a son from a mother may cause some sentimental tears, but your son will be prepared to dab them away with his new handkerchief. This handkerchief features an embroidered saying of your choosing. We suggest: "Today a groom, tomorrow a husband, always my son." Add his wedding date so that he always remembers the special moments you shared together not only on his wedding day, but also throughout his life as mother and son.

$35 | Etsy

23. Household Painting Kit

New marriage, new home, new wall colors. With this 15-piece set, your son will have everything he needs to customize his new home. He'll definitely take pride in his pro-level painting skills.

$45 | The Knot

24. Cooler Cart

Sometimes a classic cooler doesn't cut it. This large mobile cooler cart takes away the need to drag a heavy cooler on the ground. A drain, wheels and built-in bottle opener make this an excellent gift for any groom who plans to entertain. Plus, it looks way nicer than the crusty old Igloo he's been using since college.

$208 | The Knot

25. A One-of-a-Kind Experience

This gift box lets your son pick an adventure to enjoy with his sweetheart, from surf lessons, to snorkel tours, to foodie tastings. He'll be able to create a custom experience anywhere, be it in their own backyard or on their honeymoon getaway. And he'll have you to thank for it.

$139 | Tinggly