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21 Thoughtful 49th Anniversary Gift Ideas for Your Other Half

Spoil your spouse with one of these luxurious gifts.
The Best 49th Anniversary Gift Ideas for Your Spouse
Photos, clockwise: Le Creuset, Saks Fifth Avenue, Personalization Mall, Waterford
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Alison Meehan
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  • Alison writes articles for The Knot Worldwide, specializing in shoppable roundups of anniversary gifts.
  • Before focusing on shoppable content, Alison was a content writer at The Knot.
  • Alison holds a master's degree in writing and a bachelor's in textile design.
Updated Aug 23, 2023
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It may not be your 50th wedding anniversary just yet, but being married for 49 years is still an accomplishment worth celebrating. One of the best ways to honor the special occasion is to treat your spouse to a meaningful 49th anniversary gift. After almost five decades of gift-giving, we totally get it if you're running out of good ideas. To help you find something special for the one you love, we've compiled a list of our favorite 49-year anniversary gifts to suit various personalities, tastes and budgets. Read on to discover more about the symbolism behind the 49th marriage milestone.

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49th Anniversary Gift Themes

There is no traditional gifting theme associated with the 49th wedding anniversary, but the modern gift is luxury goods. Much like the 50th anniversary gift of gold, this special symbol represents the wealth of experience a couple has after being married for nearly five decades. It also speaks to the luxury of having a loving partner by your side through all of life's ups and downs. While the 49th anniversary does not have an official flower or gemstone, the modern theme gives you the flexibility to choose almost any piece you think will wow your spouse.

Symbolic 49th Anniversary Gifts

The luxury goods category offers plenty of inspiration when shopping for a 49th anniversary gift for your significant other. Watches, jewelry and upscale homewares fit the bill perfectly, but we've also included a few other creative options that feel just as special. Whether you want to splurge on your spouse or keep things simple, you're sure to find a meaningful 49-year anniversary gift below.

Crystal Tennis Bracelet

Crystal Tennis Bracelet from Swarovski
Photo: Swarovski

The luxury goods theme is the perfect excuse to splurge on a gorgeous jewelry gift for your spouse. This Swarovski crystal bracelet is a sparkly accessory that will add the finishing touch to any outfit—and a dazzling smile to your partner's face. Choose from a variety of sizes and five different metal finishes to tailor this 49th anniversary gift to your partner's tastes. Use Theknot10 code to get 10% off sitewide.

Stylish Scented Candle

Festivel Scented Candle from Anthropologie
Photo: Anthropologie

We're all about appreciating life's little luxuries, like lighting a scented candle in the evening and turning the lights down. This silver jar flame from Anthropologie is a great way to update your living space without blowing your budget. It features the brand's signature Volcano fragrance with notes of tropical fruits, sugared oranges and mountain greens and comes in four different sizes. It's a sweet and thoughtful gift that'll make your 49th anniversary feel a bit more romantic.

Luxe Gold Watch

Gold Watch for your 49th anniversary from Bulova
Photo: Bulova

After 49 years together, you and your spouse probably understand how quickly time passes. This luxe gold watch is a great way to celebrate all the good times you've shared and spoil your spouse at the same time. The gold-tone hardware and elegant champagne dial exude subtle sophistication and will add a touch of glamor to any ensemble. We bet your partner will feel extra special with a 49th anniversary gift as thoughtful (and stylish) as this one.

Luxurious Silk Pajamas

Silk Pajamas for your 49th wedding anniversary from Lunya
Photo: Lunya

The 49th wedding anniversary is an excellent opportunity to treat your spouse to something they might not buy for themselves, like a set of luxurious silk pajamas. These ones from Lunya are a winning pick for several reasons: They're made from 100% silk, they're thermoregulating (hot sleepers, rejoice!) and they look seriously stylish. Better yet, they can be thrown in the washing machine for fuss-free laundering. (Psst: First-time customers can get 15% off their purchase with the code FOR-TK).

Luxury Box of Chocolates

Box of Chocolates from Simply Chocolate
Photo: Simply Chocolate

The luxury goods theme also extends to edible anniversary gifts, like this decadent box of chocolates from Godiva. The stylish gold box is decorated with a pretty ribbon and contains a variety of milk, dark and white chocolates, each with a sumptuous Belgian chocolate filling. The assortment is available in three different sizes, including 19, 36 and 70 pieces, to suit your level of indulgence and your 49th anniversary celebrations.

Cashmere Throw Blanket

Cashmere Throw Blanket from Quince for your 49th wedding anniversary
Photo: Quince

When we think of luxurious homewares, a cashmere blanket is at the top of our list. Thanks to Quince, you can get your hands your very own soft and cozy throw without spending the big bucks. This version is made from 100% premium cashmere sourced from Mongolia and comes in a range of classic shades like camel, white and gray. Now, all you have to do is cuddle up on the sofa together and enjoy your 49th anniversary in style.

Bottle of Champagne

Bottle of Champagne from Wine.com
Photo: Wine.com

If you want to get your spouse in a celebratory mood, why not crack open a bottle of bubbly on your 49th anniversary? This sparkling wine from Moet & Chandon is the real deal and is made from vines grown in the heart of France's famous Champagne region. Fruity notes and floral nuances make it a sophisticated (and delicious) way to toast your 49-year union.

Lavender Bath Set

Lavender Bath Set from Uncommon Goods for your wedding anniversary
Photo: Uncommon Goods

Give your spouse the luxury of some precious me-time with this lavender bath set. Designed with relaxation in mind, it includes bath salts in a muslin bag, body mist, moisturizing salve and a small candle, each infused with the soothing scents of lavender for the ultimate spa-worthy finish. We suggest presenting this to your partner along with a promise to take care of any chores so they can really unwind.

Crystal Whiskey Tumblers

Crystal Whiskey Tumblers from Waterford
Photo: Waterford

A set of elegant crystal tumblers is an excellent way to nod to the modern 49th anniversary theme, especially if you and your partner like drinking whiskey. This dazzling duo from Waterford will make any nightcap feel like a special occasion. They're crafted from fine-quality crystal and adorned with intricate diamond and wedge cuts for a luxurious finish. Our suggestion? Have them engraved with your names for a knockout 49th anniversary gift for him, her or them.

Stylish Crossbody Handbag

Crossbody Handbag from Macy's
Photo: Macy's

Here's a stylish and practical take on the luxury goods theme: A chic Michael Kors handbag your spouse can wear with any outfit. This cute crossbody purse is perfect for those who like to look good without being flashy and is sure to become a style staple in your partner's wardrobe. It features the brand's iconic monogram pattern and gold hardware for added glamor, but that's not all—it's also water-resistant, lightweight and roomy enough to hold all their essentials. How's that for a winning 49th anniversary gift?

Luxurious Bottle of Perfume

Bottle of Perfume from Saks Fifth Avenue for your 49th wedding anniversary
Photo: Saks Fifth Avenue

We couldn't write a round-up of luxurious gifts without including a gorgeous bottle of perfume. Molton Brown is synonymous with sophisticated fragrances, and this jasmine and sun rose scent is no exception. With raspberry, peach, jasmine and musk notes, it will make your spouse feel like a million dollars. Our prediction? They'll love it so much they'll want to spritz it on daily.

Alternative 49th Anniversary Gifts

Themed gifts are a great jumping-off point for your shopping, but they're not the only option to take inspiration from. If you feel like being more inventive with your gifting, you can always ditch the themes in favor of a more alternative pick. Whether you want to surprise your spouse with a sweet and sentimental gift or get something you can both use, the choice is yours. Ultimately, the best 49th anniversary gift you can give is one that shows your spouse just how much you get them.

Cute Kissing Mugs

Cute Kissing Mugs in different colors from Uncommon Goods
Photo: Uncommon Goods

Bring out your partner's sentimental side with a sweet 49th anniversary gift that doesn't take itself too seriously. This pair of mugs fit together to resemble two faces kissing while the handles form a heart. It's a fun way to brighten up coffee breaks on the patio and may just win you an actual kiss from your grateful spouse. Fill it with their favorite coffee beans or sweet treats to make this playful gift even more charming.

Indoor Smart Garden

Indoor Smart Garden from Click & Grow for your 49th wedding anniversary
Photo: Click & Grow

Gardening takes a lot of work—or at least it used to, before Click & Grow introduced their range of indoor smart gardens. Perfect for plant enthusiasts and novices alike, this handy device makes growing your own fruit and vegetables almost effortless. Automated features take care of watering and light management, while easy seed pods help you start your garden on the fly. It's a gift for the 49th anniversary that will keep on giving long after the official date.

Silky Sheet Set

Silky Sheet Set from Eucalypso Home
Photo: Eucalypso Home

Few things are as satisfying as a good night's sleep, and investing in soft new bedding is one of the quickest routes to a peaceful slumber. This silky sheet set from Eucalypso is made from moisture-wicking and hypoallergenic fabric for maximum comfort. It includes a fitted sheet, a top sheet and one or two pillowcases (depending on the size) and comes in a variety of neutral colors and seasonal shades. Sunday morning lie-ins with your spouse are about to get a whole lot better.

Red Rose Plant

Red Rose Plant from 1-800 Flowers for your 49th wedding anniversary
Photo: 1-800 Flowers

While there isn't an official anniversary flower for the 49th year of marriage, you can never go wrong with some romantic red roses. Swap a fresh bouquet for a rose plant presented in a cute ladybug pot for a sweet gift that'll bloom for ages. P.S.: Ladybugs are said to bring good fortune, although after almost 50 years in a loving marriage, your spouse probably feels pretty lucky anyway.

Personalized Four-Across Game

Customized Four-Across Game by Uncommon Goods
Photo: Uncommon Goods

If you and your spouse enjoy playing games together, this personalized four-across game is sure to inspire some friendly competition. The wooden frame features cute heart-shaped slots and can be carved with your names and wedding date for a sweet 49th anniversary keepsake. There's also a jumbo-sized version available if you want to play with loved ones on the lawn.

Celestial Diamond Earrings

Celestial Diamond Earrings from Brilliant Earth
Photo: Brilliant Earth

Surprise the shining star in your life with a pair of celestial-inspired earrings. These dainty baubles are made from recycled silver and feature a sparkly diamond at the center of each twinkling star. Not only will they bring a subtle shimmer to your spouse's jewelry collection but they'll also earn you serious brownie points on the morning (or night) of your 49th anniversary.

Personalized Photo Frame

Customized Photo Frame from Personalization Mall
Photo: Personalization Mall

After 49 years of wedded bliss, you and your spouse probably have more photos than you can count. Delve into the archives and pick out your favorite snapshot to present in this rustic wooden frame. Bonus: It can be laser engraved with your names or a thoughtful message to make this personalized anniversary gift unique to your love story.

Sound Wave Art

Sound wave art from RindleWaves for your 49th wedding anniversary
Photo: RindleWaves

Your first dance probably seems like a distant memory at this point, but why not relive the moment all over again with some music-inspired art? This striking piece is modeled off a sound wave from your chosen track for a unique and sentimental keepsake you can display at home. Have it printed on paper or canvas and choose from several framing options to ensure this thoughtful 49-year anniversary gift is ready to hang up immediately.

Monogrammed Ice Bucket

Monogrammed Ice Bucket from Mark & Graham
Photo: Mark & Graham

Why wait until your golden wedding anniversary to throw a big party? If you're planning a special celebration for your 49th anniversary, this monogrammed ice bucket will add a dash of glamor to the festivities. Choose from silver or gold-plated steel and have your initials engraved on the front for a personalized finish. If you want to go the extra mile, fill it with a bottle of bubbly (or two) and get ready to say "Cheers!"

Cast Iron Bread Oven

Cast Iron Bread Oven for your 49th wedding anniversary
Photo: Le Creuset

If you're lucky enough to be married to someone who enjoys baking, this bread oven from Le Creuset is a practical gift you'll both appreciate. It's made from cast iron and comes with a domed lid that traps and circulates steam to enhance the flavor and rise of the dough. Choose from a range of punchy colors (like red, yellow or blue) and timeless neutrals to match your kitchen's decor scheme.