30 Gifts for a Stepdaughter That Represent Your Special Bond

For a holiday or any old day, we've got sweet surprises for stepdaughters of all ages.
30 Gifts for a Sweet Stepdaughter of Any Age
Photos from clockwise: Anthropologie, Amazon, Amazon, Pottery Barn
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Christin Perry
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Christin Perry
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  • Christin specializes in writing gift guides and shoppable articles for The Knot.
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  • She has written for such publications as The Bump, Parents, VeryWell, Parade and LittleThings.
Updated Oct 12, 2023
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As the holiday season approaches, you're probably busy putting together your shopping list. When it comes to looking for a gift for your daughter by marriage, the perfect gift for a stepdaughter will show her you love her and that you're happy to have her in your life. Whether she's a relatively new bonus child or you've been shopping for her for ages (maybe even including a wedding gift for her or an engagement gift from you and your spouse), we've collected some stepdaughter gifts to suit girls of all ages. If your stepdaughter is young, she might enjoy one of this season's hottest toys. But if she's an adult (or somewhere in between), a more meaningful or personalized gift might be best.

Here, we've rounded up some options categorized by age to help you find the best gift for your stepdaughter. Happy hunting!

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Gifts for a Young Stepdaughter

If your stepdaughter is still young, she's more likely to enjoy a gift that she can unwrap and play with (rather than money or a gift card). That's why we've included some of this year's hottest toys on our list. Not into toys? Consider shopping for something that speaks to her interests, like a duffel bag she can take to ballet class or a sketch pad for the budding artist. Here, find our favorite gifts for a stepdaughter if she's under 10.

Personalized Duffle Bag

Customized duffle bag for your young stepdaughter
Photo: LeRoseGifts

Good gifts for a stepdaughter are ones that she can use in her everyday life. That's why we love this sturdy duffle bag. She can use it for sports, dance or weekends away—there's plenty of room for all of her belongings. What's more, you can personalize it with her name and choose from lots of different solid or striped colorways.

Light-Up Tracing Board

Light-up tracing board from Amazon
Photo: Amazon

A fan favorite among kids and parents alike, this tracing board from Crayola allows your stepdaughter to hone her art skills by tracing pictures, working on her lettering or putting together an endless number of fashion combinations. The light-up board works by projecting her chosen design to show through the tracing paper, so she can follow the lines to mimic the image. The kit comes with one regular pencil and 12 colored pencils, so she can color her own art as well.

Trendy Doll House

Fun dollhouse for your young stepdaughter
Photo: Amazon

"Gabby's Dollhouse" has quickly become one of the hottest shows for kiddos on Amazon, thanks to its clever mix of real-life and animated characters. In keeping with that, we've included the Gabby Cat Friend Ship doll house on our list of holiday and Christmas gifts for a stepdaughter: It's perfect for girls younger than about six who are fans of the show. The dollhouse itself was top of the list for most kids in this age group last holiday season, so this year we anticipate the Friend Ship will maintain its must-have status.

Cute Boots

Cute boots for your young stepdaughter
Photo: Carter's

A cute pair of boots makes a great addition to any little girl's wardrobe. This pair from Carter's doesn't disappoint. The faux-leather ankle boots feature a heart-shaped buckle and a sturdy rubber sole, which makes them both fun and fashionable.

Fun card game from Amazon
Photo: Amazon

This wildly popular (and crazy simple) card game is taking the world by storm. With more than 40,000 five-star reviews on Amazon, this game is perfect for kids and adults alike, making it the perfect choice for family game night (and the perfect holiday or Christmas gift idea for your stepdaughter). In this fast-paced game, each player will say a word while putting a card in the middle of the table. If the word matches the card, everyone slaps the pile. The last slapper takes all the cards and play continues.

Personalized Cozy Blanket

Personalized blanket for your young stepdaughter
Photo: DashingFoxCo

This super-soft blanket comes personalized with her name for a personalized gift for a stepdaughter. Whether she's a baby or a big kid who's looking to add a cozy touch to her bed, this beautiful blanket is sure to be loved for many years to come. Choose from ten trendy colors and tons of font color options.

Digital Pet Toy

Fun digital pet from Amazon
Photo: Amazon

No pets? No problem! This new digital pet is one of the best gifts for your stepdaughter, especially if she's between the ages of four and 10. This handheld toy allows your child to interact with the pet of their choice and actually "pet" it, too! Your stepdaughter is sure to love this popular toy.

Gooey Slime Kit

National Geographic slime kit
Photo: Amazon

When it comes to the best gifts for a young stepdaughter, slime is always a safe bet. It seems kids simply can't get enough of this sticky stuff. This kit by National Geographic allows her to make four types of slime and four types of putty as well, including magnetic putty, fluffy slime, glow-in-the-dark putty, color-changing putty and liquid slime.

Kiddo Tablet

Kid-friendly tablet for your young stepdaughter
Photo: Amazon

Your stepdaughter is sure to be thrilled when she unwraps the latest Amazon Fire tablet. This upgraded version features a full-color display, an extended battery life and a kid-proof case, plus a one-year subscription to Amazon Kids+. The sturdy cover prevents breaking and even includes a convenient stand that'll allow her to watch movies hands-free.

Cat Socks

Cat socks for your young stepdaughter
Photo: Amazon

If you're on the hunt for adorable, but inexpensive gifts for a stepdaughter, look no further than this sweet little 10-pack of cat socks in assorted colors. These brightly colored socks hit slightly above the ankle, feature a seamless toe and are made from soft, stretchy cotton. They're sure to make the morning routine go more smoothly and there are enough to get through the week, even if you miss a laundry day now and then.

Gifts for a Teenage Stepdaughter

If your stepdaughter has hit the teen years, you've likely got your work cut out for you. A great gift is always a nice way to reach her heart and show her you care (even if she herself doesn't show it right away). On our list of the best gifts for a stepdaughter in her teens, you'll find fun, trendy gifts she's sure to love and use again and again.

Rainbow Tennis Bracelet

Rainbow tennis bracelet for your teenage stepdaughter
Photo: BaubleBar

This rainbow heart tennis bracelet from BaubleBar is a beautiful gift and a wonderful gesture to show your stepdaughter that you love her. With a secure clasp closure and a full length of hearts arranged in subtle rainbow colors, this bracelet is sure to be a hit. She can wear it alone or stacked with her other favorite bracelets.

Cozy Sherpa Robe

Cozy bathrobe for your stepdaughter
Photo: Mark & Graham

This sherpa robe is super warm and cozy, and will grow with your stepdaughter throughout the years. In fact, she could even take it with her to college! Available in three neutral hues, this plush robe comes in two sizes: x-small/small and medium/large. You can even have it personalized with her initials.

Personalized Journal

Customized journal for your teenage stepdaughter
Photo: EliteEngravingCo

A journal is always a great gift and your teenage stepdaughter will love this personalized one from Etsy to keep her thoughts organized. This journal features 224 lined pages and a sturdy binding. The front cover, available in several different colors, features a floral monogram for a feminine touch. We also love going the journal route when it comes to personalized gifts for your husband, wife or spouse.

Trendy boots for your teenage stepdaughter
Photo: Neiman Marcus

Any footwear from the ever-popular UGG makes a great gift for a stepdaughter. But these platform UGGs blew up on the web this year after celebs like Bella Hadid and Keke Palmer were spotted sporting them in the chestnut color. Plus, they're super cute and padded with plenty of the brand's signature super-soft lining.

Friendship Bracelet Kit

Friendship bracelet kit for your teenage stepdaughter
Photo: Amazon

If slime is the love language of the elementary school set, it's friendship bracelets once they hit middle and high school. And Taylor Swift made them even more popular during her tour this year. This enormous (and reasonably priced) set of beads includes everything she'll need to make tons of bracelets for herself and her friends. Along with a rainbow of colored beads, the kit includes letter beads, decorative beads, string, closures and helpful tools.

Makeup Organizer

Makeup organizer from West Elm
Photo: West Elm

This 20-inch wood and plastic organizer features three levels of circular shelves that'll allow your teenage stepdaughter to organize all of her beauty and skincare essentials. The attractive light wood tone and white shelves pair to make a lovely addition to her bathroom counter or vanity top. This one of our favorite gifts for a stepdaughter.

Kindle Paperwhite E-Reader

Kindle Paperwhite for your teenage stepdaughter
Photo: Amazon

If your teenage stepdaughter is an avid reader, the Kindle Paperwhite is an obvious choice. With an almost-seven-inch backlit display and storage for plenty of her favorite reads, this gift is sure to be a hit. The Kindle Paperwhite includes a charging cable, an eight- or 16-gigabyte storage capacity and a battery that lasts for about a week on one charge.

Name Blanket

Personalized name blanket
Photo: BaubleBar

Teens are obsessed with jewelry brand BaubleBar, and now the brand has come out with a line of personalized name blankets that are all the rage. This is likely already on her holiday list, so it's definitely a good gift for a stepdaughter. You'll be a hero when she unwraps this pretty blanket with her name displayed in ombré tones. Choose from a variety of colors and two sizes.

Comfy Sweater

Comfy sweater from Anthropologie
Photo: Anthropologie

This chic sweater from Anthropologie features a mock neck and cropped cut for an on-trend silhouette that suits just about any style. Choose from a ton of cool colors in regular, plus and petite sizes to ensure the perfect gift. This is a gift for your stepdaughter that's just right for pretty much any occasion.

Fizzy Bath Bombs

Bath bombs from SoakeyDokey on Etsy
Photo: SoakeyDokey

Teen girls are all about pampering themselves, so any gift that helps them do that is a good gift for a stepdaughter in this age group. This unique set of nine bath bombs can be custom curated by you from the seller's selection of options, each with its own scent and colorful design. They're beautifully packaged in a gift box that she'll enjoy opening.

Gifts for an Adult Stepdaughter

Maybe you've gained a daughter by marriage, but she's all grown up and living in her own space. That doesn't mean you can't give her a gift to show her that you care. Speak to her heart with one of these gifts for an adult stepdaughter.

Cute Juice Glasses

Juice Glasses for your stepdaughter
Photo: Anthropologie

Not sure what would make a good gift for a stepdaughter who seems to have everything? Gift her this beautiful set of four juice glasses by artist Mimi Thorisson. Inspired by Italian pottery and handmade exclusively for Anthropologie, this unique set of glasses is sure to become a cherished favorite for years to come.

Pocket Watch Desk Clock

Pocket watch desk clock from Pottery Barn
Photo: Pottery Barn

This attractive desk clock is styled to be reminiscent of an English pocket watch, with subtle Roman numerals set against a stark white background. It's the perfect addition to your stepdaughter's bedside table or work desk. Choose between two sized and three brushed metallic finishes.

Wool Socks

Wool socks from Amazon
Photo: Amazon

Need a quick, inexpensive gift for your stepdaughter? Snag this set of five pairs of wool socks from Amazon. With more than 20,000 five-star ratings, these are sure to put a smile on her face when she slips them on. Choose from lots of different colors and patterns, all with a traditional Nordic-inspired look.

Gold Huggie Earrings

Gold huggie earrings for your stepdaughter
Photo: BaubleBar

Why not include a pair of statement earrings in your bundle of good gifts for your stepdaughter? We love this layered-looking pair from BaubleBar that features a spray of 18K-gold-plated hoops that come together with a single post. The light silhouette is suitable for daytime or a more formal evening look. Choose between plain gold or gold with diamonds.

Personalized Name Necklace

Customized name necklace from RobertoGoldDiamond on Etsy
Photo: RobertoGoldDiamond

Your adult stepdaughter will get a kick out of this unique personalized necklace, which allows her to become her very own brand! The artist behind this Etsy shop expertly layers letters to create a special design from your stepdaughter's name. She's sure to love this one-of-a-kind gift.

Cozy Pajama Set

Cozy pyjama set for your stepdaughter
Photo: Cozy Earth

This upscale pair of pajamas will become your stepdaughter's favorite pair once she slips into the buttery softness of the bamboo-blend material. This set from Cozy Earth comes in an array of beautiful, trendy colors. The long-sleeved and pants pairing also make this the perfect set for chilly winter nights.

French Skincare Gift Set

Skincare set for your stepdaughter
Photo: Nordstrom

Looking for a holiday gift for a stepdaughter that won't break the bank? Place this five-piece set by L'Occitane in a pretty package for her this year. This beautifully packaged gift set includes five of the brand's top-selling signature items, including hand and foot cream, cuticle oil, a small bar of soap and chapstick.

Silk Pillowcase

Silk pillowcase from Nordstrom
Photo: Nordstrom

Give your adult stepdaughter the gift of beauty sleep when you wrap up this 100-percent-silk pillowcase from Nordstrom. Available in an array of colors, this silk pillowcase has been shown to reduce the appearance of fine lines, improve skin hydration and enhance luminosity after just a few nights of use. We can't think of a better gift for a stepdaughter!

Travel Case Set

Travel case set for your stepdaughter
Photo: Cuyana

This set of two leather travel cases is sized just right to fit a few of her favorite essentials, whether she tosses them in her purse or her overnight bag. Available in five pretty colors, these zip-around pouches are one of the best gifts for a stepdaughter who loves to stay organized on the go. Plus, the leather interiors are so easy to clean, so no need to worry about makeup spills and stains.

Decorative Bud Vase

Small decorative flower vase from nestandcrete
Photo: nestandcrete

This modern concrete vase will be a beautiful addition to your stepdaughter's home, making it a perfect gift for a holiday or a housewarming event. Choose from nine chic hues to suit any home decor style. Measuring only four inches tall, this diminutive bud vase perfectly lends itself to layering in a tablescape or can make a statement all on its own.

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