20 Stylish and Timeless Silk Anniversary Gift Ideas

These gifts bring the class—and earn you major brownie points.
Collage of four silk anniversary gift ideas including eye masks, slip dress, candle, and pillowcase
Photos, from clockwise: Uncommon Goods, Eberjey, Otherland, Anthropologie
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Christin Perry
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Updated Dec 21, 2023
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If you and your spouse are rounding the corner to a dozen years of wedded bliss, it's time to shop for a silk anniversary gift. Together, you've surpassed the huge ten-year mark, but you'll experience a lot of life together before your twentieth anniversary.

The traditional 12-year anniversary gift is silk, which means you may want to find an item that incorporates this smooth, satiny material into your gift this year. The good news is? There are plenty of wonderful gifts to choose from. From timeless attire to dramatic home goods, these thoughtful silk anniversary gifts are an easy (and beautiful!) way to spoil your spouse like they deserve. And this luxury material doesn't have to be reserved just for your 12-year anniversary—you can shop it any time and use our list as inspiration. Below, we're rounding up 20 stylish silk anniversary gifts your spouse is sure to love.

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Silk Anniversary Gift Meaning

Silk is a strong and stylish fabric that represents purity and elegance. It has long been associated with marriage all over the world—Indian cultures don saris made of white silk for their weddings, and wedding dresses in just about any culture are often made of silk fabric. As a symbol, silk represents the beauty of a mature and safe relationship, calling to mind the luxury that is long-lasting love.

The Best Silk Anniversary Gifts

It's easy to find a great silk anniversary gift, whether you're shopping for a spouse who loves fashion or one that prefers the comforts of home over an overflowing closet. Below, we're rounding up 20 of the best silk anniversary gifts to spoil your spouse with this year.

1. Cool Pillowcase

Silk pillowcase anniversary gift idea
Photo: Anthropologie

A pure silk pillowcase, like this Slip design from Anthropologie, is the silk anniversary gift they've secretly been pining for—trust us! The indulgent fabric is naturally cooling and can be gentler on hair and skin for a restorative night of beauty rest. Choose from seven different colors, as well as standard or king sizing.

2. Luxe Robe

Navy Blue Luxe Silk Robe anniversary gift idea
Photo: Nordstrom

This luxurious silk robe from upscale brand Lunya is way more than just a pretty piece of loungewear. Not only does it look (and feel) amazing when on, but it's machine washable too. Because of that, your spouse can wear it over and over again without the hassle of sending it to the dry cleaners—even if they get a bit of their late-night snack on it.

3. Silk Bow Tie

Black Silk Bow Tie anniversary gift idea
Photo: Belfast Bow Company

It can be difficult to find great silk anniversary gifts for men, but this handsome bow tie may just change your mind. Understated but elegant, it's made by hand from luxurious black silk fabric that pops against any shirt or tuxedo.

4. Hotel-Worthy Sheet

White silk sheet set anniversary gift idea
Photo: Quince

This silk sheet from Quince is made from 100% Mulberry silk for a luxuriously light, breathable way to snooze. Machine washable and designed to get softer with each wash, it comes in a creamy, cloud-like white that will add an elegant touch to any bed.

5. Silk Boxers

Silk Boxers anniversary gift idea
Photo: Lunya

Underwear may not seem like something a man would want as a silk anniversary gift, but we say, don't knock it till you try it! Silk fabric is lightweight, breathable and moisture-wicking to keep him dry and comfortable. This gorgeous design from Lunya includes a no-twist waistband and five rich colors.

6. Cozy Blanket

Cozy Silk Blanket anniversary gift idea
Photo: Macy's

This simple silk blanket may not be fancy, but it makes up for that with its cozy comfort. Buttery soft, it's made from an 80% silk, 20% cotton blend and features a silk and charmeuse border in the same color. This generously sized blanket comes in twin, queen and king sizes and several different neutral colors, so finding the perfect complement to your bedroom decor is easy.

7. Sexy Chemise

Pink silk short slip dress anniversary gift idea
Photo: Eberjey

This flirty silk chemise is perfect for sleeping—or for celebrating a certain milestone anniversary! Made with adjustable straps and featuring a keyhole back, it's available in rosy pink or trendy lilac. Needless to say, it's a silky anniversary gift you'll both likely enjoy.

8. Dapper Tie

Navy and red silk tie anniversary gift idea
Photo: Macy's

At the risk of sounding cliche, we think a silk tie deserves a place on our list of the best silk anniversary gift ideas. Sure, it's a pretty typical anniversary gift, but the right tie can instantly upgrade any outfit and, after all these years, their formalwear could probably use an upgrade. This dapper version from Tommy Hilfiger features classic red stripes set against a handsome navy background for a timeless vibe that'll pair with any event.

9. Repurposed Sari Silk Scarf

Repurposed Sari Silk Scarf
Photo: Uncommon Goods

A perfect silk anniversary gift for a free spirit, this silk scarf is made of repurposed silk saris, carefully crafted by female Indian artisans. Each scarf is unique thanks to the authentic craftsmanship, and can be dressed up or down for a stunning, fashion-forward look.

10. Eye Mask

Silk heart shaped eye mask anniversary gift idea
Photo: Uncommon Goods

This adorable (and functional!) eye mask is heart-shaped to fit perfectly over the eyes and temples to soothe a headache and encourage sleep. Made from a combination of cotton and silk, this sweet eye mask can be used either hot or cold. And, at less than $40, it's one of our favorite silk anniversary gift ideas.

11. Handy Scrunchies

Silk scrunchies anniversary gift idea
Photo: Anthropologie

When you wrap up this set of six pure silk scrunchies as a silk anniversary gift, what you're really giving your partner is the gift of great hair. Silk scrunchies are proven to reduce breakage and split ends, leaving them with luscious locks that look shinier and fuller than ever. With six scrunchies in a set, they'll always have an extra on hand (they can even stash a few in each bag or car!).

12. Fashionable Heels

Blue silk kitten heels anniversary gift idea
Photo: Nordstrom

For a luxurious and splurge-worthy way to honor the silk anniversary, this pair of Manolo Blaniks does the trick! Wrapped in a silky blue satin material and adorned with an eye-popping jeweled broach at the front, these beautiful heels lend an elegant, vintage vibe to her next dressy event.

13. Forever Rose

Silk desk rose anniversary gift idea
Photo: Just Paper Roses

If you're keeping things small and meaningful this year, opt for a silk anniversary gift that can sit on their desk and remind them of how much you love them. This sweet little 7-inch artificial rose will last much longer than real flowers, and even "grows" from its own pot.

14. Posh Polo

Cashmere cream silk tennis polo anniversary gift idea
Photo: Colhays

It can be difficult to find great silk anniversary gifts for him, which is why we've included this incredibly soft and luxurious polo shirt. Made with a blend of silk and cashmere fibers, this shirt spares no detail. Vintage-inspired touches like a slightly longer sleeve length and a collar add flair, while the fiber is insanely soft without feeling heavy or hot. This cream-colored shirt transitions perfectly from the tennis courts or golf course to an afternoon at the country club, sipping his favorite post-game libation.

15. Silk Scarf

Silk Scarf anniversary gift idea
Photo: 12th Knit

Think of this oversized silk scarf from Etsy as the physical embodiment of a warm hug from you. Choose from an assortment of colors, including several gender-neutral options, all of which are displayed in beautiful gradients for visual interest. Generously long and free from fringe or any other embellishments, these simple scarves will look beautiful wrapped around their neck and tucked into their winter coat. When you buy one for your love, you may just want to buy one for yourself, too!

16. Pocket Square

Paisley Moss Green Pocket Square anniversary gift idea
Photo: The Tie Bar

Looking for a simple and inexpensive silk anniversary gift for him? Look no further than this pretty paisley design. Sized at 12x12 inches with a reinforced stitched hem and soft mint green hue, it's sure to elevate his favorite suit.

17. Comfy Pashmina

Silk scarf anniversary gift idea
Photo: JEREYS BOUTIQUE

This elegant silk pashmina simply must be on your list of the best silk anniversary gift ideas! With beautiful cashmere silk fabric and a barely-there fringe, it's a piece they're sure to reach for over and over again. The best part? There are 12 pretty colors to choose from.

18. Luxury Candle

Silk scented candle anniversary gift idea
Photo: Otherland

For a twist on the typical silk anniversary gift, look no further than this luxe candle from bespoke brand Otherland. Cleverly called "Silk Pajamas," it's scented with notes of crystal ginger, bergamot zest and spiced yuzu for a unique and sexy frangrance that will add another layer to your next date night. Even better, the jar itself is stunning—we bet they'll want to reuse it for storage once the flame has burned out.

19. Wrist Candy

Heart silk bracelet anniversary gift idea
Photo: Tiffany & Co.

There's no thrill quite like being presented with a signature Tiffany blue bag. Inside, they'll find this timeless silk bracelet, which features the brand's iconic Elsa Peretti Open Heart. It's a fitting and classic symbol of your love, and a piece that's sure to become an family heirloom for generations to come.

20. Chic Clutch

Pink Silk Clutch Bag anniversary gift idea
Photo: The Bagroom Co

A beautiful bag has the ability to elevate any outfit, from a simple pair of jeans to a breezy sundress. This silk ikat clutch is bold in all the right ways, with a vibrant palette and playful tassel that allow it to upgrade any look into special occasion attire.

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