28 Gifts for Your Stepmom That Show Her You Really Care

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Updated Oct 13, 2023
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The holiday season is just a calendar flip away, and there's no better time than the most wonderful time of the year to show your family just how much you care. The good news: If you're hunting for the perfect gifts for your stepmom, you've come to the right place. While there are many ways big and small to show your affection during the holidays (freshly baked cookies, a sentimental note, a quick shovel of the snowy driveway), we happen to love the thrill that comes from finding the perfect gifts for every person on your list. Whether your stepmom raised you from the start and you've been shopping for anniversary gifts for your parent and stepmom for years or she just joined the family through marriage recently after a wedding that really brought on the waterworks for you, a thoughtful holiday gift is a great way to make her feel like part of the crew.

Below, we're rounding up some thoughtful stepmom gifts she's sure to adore. From cozy winter accessories and self-care products to kitchen gadgets that would make any home cook swoon, these stepmom gift ideas will win her over—and win you the award of holiday MVP. So what are you waiting for? Let's get shopping.

1. Cozy Cashmere Socks

Cozy cashmere socks for step mom in oatmeal
Photo: Quince

Nothing says luxury quite like rocking cashmere from head to toe, especially during the winter months. If your stepmom is a fan of all things cozy and cuddly, she'll love wrapping her frigid feet in a pair of cashmere socks. Available in six better-than-neutral shades, this pair from Quince gets an A+ in both quality and price. Snag her a set to go with other self-care-themed picks or sneak a pair into her stocking for a fun surprise.

2. Stylish Watch Band

Assorted color smart watch band gift for step mom
Photo: Anthropologie

It's no surprise techies are obsessed with the do-it-all device that is the Apple Watch—but it doesn't always look appealing with fancier outfits or special occasion attire. This holiday season, gift your stepmom the best of both worlds with a luxe upgrade to her watch's sportier band. This chic band by Machete features a tortoise-inspired print and a sleek black buckle for a look that can go from the gym to cocktail hour with ease.

3. Nourishing Moisturizer Bar

Daily Stone Solid Refillable Body Moisturizer
Photo: Sephora

There's no better way to show someone you care than encouraging them to partake in a little self-care. If your stepmom is big into skin or body care, she'll love this indulgent (and eco-friendly!) moisturizer. Instead of coming packaged in a plastic pump bottle, the unique formula is presented in a reusable bamboo container and appears solid—like a soap—until it's applied to the body, at which point it melts into a deliciously silky and nourishing texture.

4. Classy Utensil Crock

Light blue Le Creuset 5 Piece Utensil Set gift for step mom
Photo: West Elm

Everyone deserves to own a little Le Creuset, so we can guarantee that your stepmom will go wild to unwrap this utensil crock set. This clever collection pairs four quality silicone cookware utensils (a small and medium spatula, a basting brush and a spoonula) with a stoneware crock in one of Le Creuset's vibrant signature shades. Whether it complements her existing collection or kicks off her love affair with the brand, your stepmom will undoubtedly smile every time she catches a glimpse of this set on her countertop.

5. Garden-Fresh Candle

Roma Heirloom Tomato Candle gift for step mom
Photo: Flamingo Estate

If your stepmom is known for her overflowing flower garden or blue ribbon homegrown produce, she'll definitely appreciate this nature-inspired candle from Flamingo Estate. Scented with notes of tomato vine, basil and black pepper, it's meant to evoke Italian dinner party vibes (yes, please!) and will smell great in any room of the home—but especially the kitchen. Want to really kick this gift up a notch? Sign up for the brand's recurring candle subscription so she'll never have to go without.

6. Carved Book Valet

Wooden Book Valet Tray gift for step mom
Photo: By Chelsea Nicole

Calling all bookworms! If her TBR pile is taking over her nightstand, we may have just found the perfect stepmom gift for Christmas, Hanukkah or whichever winter holiday she celebrates. This intricately carved book valet is a genius way to keep her latest read organized—a peaked triangle holds her spot, while a round, carved circle allows her to nestle a steaming cup of coffee or tea nearby for sipping in between page flips. There's even a small tray for extras, like her glasses or a pen for jotting down notes in the margins.

7. Upgraded Apron

Royal blue apron gift for step mom
Photo: Our Place

Heading home for the holidays? This charming gift for your stepmom will guarantee she feels appreciated after whipping up a Christmas feast. Designed by Our Place—the pros behind the wildly popular Always Pan—this adorable apron includes a few extra bells and whistles that make it perfect for any host floating between the kitchen and conversation area. She'll feel extra fancy, thanks to the high neck, feminine ruched waist, vibrant colors and oversized bow, even if she's been sweating over her signature sauce all day.

8. Charming Charm Bracelet

Gold chain bracelet gift for step mom
Photo: Gorjana

When it comes to nailing holiday gifts for anyone on your list, we have one simple and foolproof motto: the more personalized, the better. This Gorjana bracelet goes above and beyond to achieve that goal, with delicate paperclip links in gold- or silver-plated brass and an oversized clasp that adds visual interest. But that's not even the best part—it pairs with all of Gorjana's many charms, ranging from initials and zodiac signs to birthstones and even pizza. Deck out the links with picks you think your stepmom will love or pair the bracelet with a gift card so she can pick out her own.

9. Chill Embroidery Kit

Modern needlepoint kit for step mom gift
Photo: Letterfolk

The holidays are one of the more stressful times of the year, so it goes without saying that your stepmom may be in need of a calming hobby (or two) to direct her attention toward. This modern needlepoint kit is ideal for beginners and pros alike and includes everything she'll need to whip up an adorable piece of flower art, including embroidery thread, a painted canvas, tapestry needles and a booklet with instructions on some of the most common needlepoint stitches.

10. Luxe Olive Oils

Brightland olive oil variety pack gift for step mom
Photo: Brightland

Passionate home cooks are always on the hunt for new pantry staples that'll up their chef game in an instant. If this sounds like your stepmother, she's in for a real treat when she receives this Brightland sampler this holiday season. Inside is a delectable array of the brand's signature olive oils, including Ardor (chili olive oil), Rosette (garlic olive oil), Lucid (lemon olive oil) and Arise (basil olive oil). The best part? Each of the four 12-ounce bottles is decked out with a decorative label designed by pro artists, so she'll be proud to display—and use—them in her kitchen.

11. Go-Anywhere Belt Bag

Hot pink lululemon belt bag gift for step mom
Photo: Lululemon

When it comes to versatile athleisure, no one does it better than Lululemon. Their signature Everywhere Belt Bag is a cult classic for a reason, providing an easy place to stash just the essentials (think: a phone, wallet, car keys) while on the go. If your stepmom is a busy bee that's always hopping from one activity to the next—or a passionate gym-goer who likes to keep her gear minimal—she'll love receiving this staple piece.

12. Plush Bathrobe

Purple Super-Plush Bath Robe gift for step mom
Photo: Brooklinen

There's one surefire way to make every shower feel like a spa-worthy indulgence: a plush bathrobe to wrap up in afterward. This Brooklinen design is as cozy as it gets, thanks to its Turkish cotton construction that's absorbent and warm. Whether she puts it on the instant she gets home from work or rocks it while she's getting ready for bed, she'll think of you (and your gift-giving prowess) each and every time.

13. Sentimental Sign Decor

Personalized 'The Perfect Blend' Family Decor Sign gift for step mom
Photo: unique and yours gifts

We get it: Familial relationships can be complicated. If you and your stepmother have come a long way since she joined the family, there's no better time than the holidays to express your love and appreciation for her. This charming sign pays tribute to your uniquely blended family unit, with the phrase, "the perfect blend" at the top and the names of each member below. Trust us—it's a sentimental and thoughtful show of love that will garner more than a few happy tears this holiday.

14. Stylish Phone Charger

Stylish tan tech charging pad gift for step mom
Photo: Courant

A gadget that solves a pain point and looks beautiful doing it? That's basically a perfect gift in our book. This charging pad does just that, with a sleek and simple design that will allow your stepmom—or any gadget-obsessed giftee—to juice up two devices at once without an excessive tangle of cords. Even better, it's a dream to look at, with a linen- or leather-covered design that basically doubles as decor.

15. Gratitude Journal

Gratitude journal gift for step mom
Photo: Amazon

If your stepmom fancies herself a wellness maven, she's sure to appreciate this thoughtful journal aimed at practicing gratitude. Meant to be used for an entire year, it boasts daily pages dedicated to practicing gratitude and mindfulness, with thought-provoking prompts like, "What experiences are you reflecting on this week that you are grateful for?" and "If you had a day on your own, what would you do first?"

16. Sumptuous Sleep Set

4-Piece Mulberry Silk Sleep Gift Set for step mom
Photo: Nordstrom

When it comes to scoring restful and rejuvenating beauty sleep, the secret lies in silk. The soft-as-butter fabric is ideal for taming frizz, reducing tension (farewell, fine lines!) and providing a cool and comfortable sleeping environment. Sounds appealing, right? Snag your stepmom this starter set from Blissy to let her in on the magic that is silk sleep gear. It includes a plush eye mask, two hair ties and—best of all—a dreamy pillowcase that'll have her counting sheep (and waking up looking fresh as a daisy) in no time.

17. Wine Advent Calendar

12 Nights of Wine Gift Box for step mom
Photo: VINEBOX

Pour one out for the best stepmom on the planet with this creative advent calendar. Designed to please even the most discerning oenophile, it's full of pro-backed wine selections from prestigious regions around the globe, like Italy, France, Spain and California. Your stepmom will love counting down the days until Christmas with a box of 12 perfect pours to savor each evening. Choose from The Cozy Collection, which bottles soul-warming reds, The Chill Collection, which combines whites, rosés and chillable reds or—if you're feeling extra—24 Nights of Wine, which blends the two. Pro tip: These collections are on presale now, so snag 'em before they sell out!

18. Quality Wireless Earbuds

Purple Beats True Wireless Noise Cancelling Earbuds Gift for step mom
Photo: Amazon

Podcasts, audiobooks and her favorite oldies hits will never sound better than when they're coming out of these Beats earbuds. These petite-but-powerful gadgets boast noise-canceling technology, a built-in microphone and a whopping six hours of listening time per charge, making them the ideal companion on long walks or even longer work days. Choose from a selection of stylish shades (including a gorgeous lilac and punchy yellow) to find the set that suits your stepmom best.

19. Fantastic Fromage

French cheese platter gift for step mom
Photo: Murray's Cheese

You may not be able to swing tickets to Paris for your favorite Francophile this holiday, but you can still help her bottle all the feels (and all the flavors) of France with this cheese sampler from Murray's Cheese. It can be delivered straight to your stepmom's front door (great if you'll be traveling elsewhere for the holidays) and is packed full of five indulgent varieties of cheese meant to typify the country's diverse culinary regions, including a nutty Comté and silky Brebirousse d'Argental. Crusty baguette not included (but definitely encouraged).

20. Sleek Jewelry Case

Forest green personalized small travel jewelry case
Photo: Mark & Graham

If your stepmom is always rocking a new bauble or stunning set of earrings, she'll love receiving this travel-friendly jewelry organizer from Mark & Graham. Available in a slew of gorgeous hues—and personalized with her initials on the front, if you choose—it touts plenty of interior organization to keep her favorite rings, bracelets and necklaces safe and tidy any time she travels. Want to really wow her? Tuck a new piece into the case for a bonus surprise for your bonus mom.

21. Personal Prose

Personalized storybook with photos gift for stepmom
Photo: Storyworth

Your stepmom may be a newer addition to your family, but that doesn't make her personal history any less important. If you've always wanted to get to know more about her life, Storyworth could be the perfect holiday gift for you both. Each week, she'll be emailed a prompt aimed at facilitating self-reflection and story time, like "What things do you think you cannot live without?" and "What's the furthest you've ever traveled?" At the end of a year, Storyworth will compile her responses (along with any images or pictures she includes) into a beautiful hardcover book that's destined to become a family heirloom for years to come.

22. Posh Nail Polish

'Very Berry' Nail Polish Set for step mom
Photo: Nordstrom

If you and your stepmom first bonded over your mutual love of beauty treatments, this polish set by Deborah Lippmann is a fitting tribute to your origin story. The six-piece collection includes the brand's signature vegan, "7-Free" polish formula in a variety of seasonal berry hues ideal for all the festive celebrations to come. Sneak this set into her stocking or team it with a mani-pedi gift card for some much-needed R&R.

23. Sweet Initial Mug

Monarch Monogram Mug gift for step mom
Photo: Anthropologie

Sometimes the best gifts for your stepmom are the ones that make the most of her favorite little rituals. If your stepmother starts each morning with a steaming cup of coffee or tea, she's sure to appreciate a new (and beautiful) mug to enjoy it out of. This whimsical stoneware design from Anthropologie comes personalized with her initial on the front and features various happy motifs, like butterflies, berries and bluebells. Our advice? Pair it with a bag of her favorite beans or tea leaves and watch her mornings get instantly better.

24. Monthly Book Subscription

Book of the Month subscription box gift for step mom
Photo: Book of the Month

Why settle for just one gift when you can give three (or six or 12)? With a Book of the Month membership, your stepmom can select a new read every 30 days, ranging from the latest thrillers to bodice-ripping romances. Choose a plan that suits your budget and invite her to make her first selection before New Years. Her TBR pile just got a lot more fun.

25. Pretty Pickleball Paddle Set

Patterned pickleball paddle set gift for step mom
Photo: Recess

In case you haven't heard, everyone is playing pickleball these days. If your stepmom has fallen hard for the latest craze, encourage her athletic endeavors by gifting her a quality paddle. Recess is a trusted brand in the pickleball sphere and this paddle makes it easy to see why—it features a lightweight fiberglass surface and honeycomb interior for the perfect spring, along with a sweat-proof, faux-leather grip that's both comfortable and effective. Even better? Their patterns and colors are seriously cute, so she's sure to kill it on the court—and look good doing it. This set comes with a paddle, carrying case and three balls, so she's all set to approach the net.

26. Chic Sweats

Burgundy Spanx sweatpants gift for step mom
Photo: Spanx

Who said loungewear had to be schlumpy? These soft and stylish pants are the perfect way to ace athleisure, with a wide-leg cut that's both flattering and supremely comfortable. They're the perfect pick for a stepmom who appreciates looking cozy, but put together, and these will easily carry her from errands to chilling on the couch in style.

27. Beautiful Bakeware

Cream Bakeware Set gift for step mom
Photo: Caraway

Looking to really splurge on your stepmom this holiday season? Look no further than this bakeware set from Caraway Home. The comprehensive collection—which includes staples like a muffin pan, baking pan and baking sheets—is perfect for the bonus mom who loves baking her way through the holiday season (and beyond). Each piece is made using Caraway's signature nontoxic materials and is available in a range of gorgeous shades, from classic cream to eye-catching marigold.

28. Special Experience

Tinggly experience gift card for step mom
Photo: Tinggly

For the stepmom that prizes memories over merch, you can't go wrong with Tinggly. A simple gift card will gain her access to over 10,000 curated, one-of-a-kind experiences around the globe, ranging from a pub tour in London to a luxury spa experience in NYC. The best part? You can gift a specific experience or a monetary amount, which will allow her to dream up her next big adventure on your dime. Basically, you just won the holidays.

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