25 Thoughtful Gifts for the Grandmother of the Bride and Groom

Because your grandma deserves to be celebrated too.

Collage of thoughtful gifts for grandmothers

Photo, from clockwise: Bellavibesandco, LOVELOX, Uncommon Goods, Anthropologie

Updated Aug 26, 2024

Planning a wedding involves so many tasks, from finalizing last-minute details to sourcing presents for your loved ones. While you may have already bought thank-you gifts for your parents and wedding party, it's time to give another family member some recognition: your grandma. Finding an appropriate grandmother-of-the-bride or groom gift can be challenging, but we're here to help. We've compiled a list of the best gifts for your grandmother on your wedding day, from sentimental keepsakes to elegant accessories and more.

Wondering when to give a thank-you gift to your grandma? The timing depends on what the present actually is. If it's something she can wear on the big day (like earrings or a stylish wrap), you can hand over the goods at your rehearsal dinner. This is also a great opportunity to present her with a bouquet of flowers or another token of your gratitude. Alternatively, you can wait until after the wedding to give your present, like a framed photo of you together or a care package to help her unwind from the celebrations. Ready to spoil your grandma with a thoughtful wedding gift? Find our favorite grandmother-of-the-bride and groom gift ideas below.

1. Bouquet of Flowers

A bunch of fresh flowers is guaranteed to put a smile on your grandma's face, whether you present them at the wedding or send them to her doorstep. BloomsyBox offers a variety of blooms you can surprise her with, from cheery sunflowers to classic roses to mixed bouquets and more. Simple yet sweet, it's easily one of our favorite gifts for the grandmother of the bride or groom.

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From $50 | BloomsyBox

2. Spa-Worthy Gift Set

Treat your grandma to some pre-wedding pampering with this gorgeous gift set. It's filled with spa-worthy goodies, including scented body oil, a shower steamer, lip balm and soap. Once she lights the essential oil-infused candle, she can sit back, relax and dream of your upcoming nuptials.

$44 | Uncommon Goods

3. Crystal Pearl Earrings

Accessories make excellent gifts for the grandmother of the bride or groom, as she can wear them to the wedding and any time afterward. We love these Swarovski earrings as they add just the right amount of sparkle to an outfit. Each features a ring of clear crystals and is finished with a shiny white pearl. She'll definitely want to wear these at every opportunity.

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$119 | Swarovski

4. Custom Portrait

Custom illustration of bride with mother and grandmother

Wondering what to buy for your grandmother as a wedding gift? Try this custom illustration featuring the bride, mother of the bride and grandma of the bride. It's based on details you submit (like hairstyle, skin tone, outfit style and body type) and can be personalized with a short message like "Three generations of love." The finished piece is a digital file you can print off and frame yourself before handing it over. (Psst, it's also a lovely gift for the mother of the bride.)

$20 for digital file | Etsy

5. Symbolic Necklace

If you're searching for a stylish and (symbolic) jewelry gift for your grandmother, this pretty necklace takes the cake. It's made from gold-plated silver and features two intertwined rings representing the loving bond between a grandmother and granddaughter. Best of all, it comes on a cute card that you can customize with your grandmother's nickname (like Grandma, Grammy or Mimi) for a personal touch.

$35 | Sarah's Whisper

6. Luxurious Hand Cream

Want to splurge on a gift for your grandmother on the wedding day? We have three words for you: Chanel hand cream. Everything about it is a real treat, from its creamy moisturizing formula to its handbag-worthy packaging. Trust us, your grandma will be grateful to have this after a day of shaking hands with loved ones (plus, she'll love showing it off.)

$62 | Chanel

7. Engraved Compact Mirror

Remind your grandmother that she's beautiful inside and out with this engraved compact. It features a beaded detail all around the front edge and holds a two-sided mirror that's perfect for quick touch-ups. Have the outside etched with a heartfelt note for a thoughtful gift she can use after the main event.

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$35 | Personalization Mall

8. Lavender-Scented Slippers

The key to finding wedding gifts for your grandma is to keep it simple. These cozy slippers are a small but thoughtful present she can wear while getting ready for the celebration. They're lightly scented with French lavender flowers and can be heated in the microwave to warm up cold toes in seconds. She'll be wearing these beauties long after the big day has passed.

$30 | Warmies

9. Personalized Handkerchief

It's not every day she gets to see her grandchild marry, so don't be surprised if your grandma is a little emotional at the ceremony. Help her prepare for any teary moments by gifting her a personalized handkerchief. This keepsake is embroidered with your wedding details and a meaningful message, making it one of the best gifts for the grandmother of the bride or groom.

From $25 | Etsy

10. Monogrammed Pajamas

Pajamas are one of our favorite grandmother-of-the-bride or groom gift ideas, as they're guaranteed to be used more than once. This sleepwear set includes a long-sleeved top and matching drawstring pants made from soft bamboo jersey. For an extra thoughtful touch, have them embroidered with your grandma's name or wedding title.

$60 | Birdy Grey

11. Birth Flower Ring Dish

Grandma will want to stash her treasured gems while washing her hands, especially with this heart-shaped ring dish. Handmade from real blooms preserved in clear resin, it comes in 12 designs to represent each birth month flower. Adorable and functional, these cute trays are also great gifts for the mother of the groom or bride.

$42 | Uncommon Goods

12. Personalized Photo Cube

Planning to give gifts to your grandmother after the wedding day? A custom photo cube filled with snapshots from your celebration is unlikely to disappoint. This wooden box has slots for four different pictures and can be personalized on the top with any message. Choose from two colors (black or white) for a sentimental thank-you gift your grandma will cherish forever.

$30 | Personalization Mall

13. Sentimental Journal

Weddings are all about love, so don't forget to thank your nearest and dearest for their support. This sentimental journal is a lovely way to tell your grandmother how much she means to you. Designed especially for her, it features fill-in-the-blank lines where you can include your own handwritten notes to your grandma. How sweet is that?

$10 | Knock Knock

14. Cashmere Wrap

A cashmere wrap is a foolproof gift for the grandmother of the bride or groom for several reasons. It'll keep her cozy when temperatures drop, help complete her outfit and she'll wear it again. This timeless accessory is made from 100% Mongolian cashmere and comes in various colors, including navy, cream and brown, so you'll definitely find a shade she'll love.

$100 | Quince

15. Butterfly Puddler

Not all thank-you gifts for your grandma have to be wedding-themed. You can also give her something inspired by her hobbies, like this butterfly puddler. Perfect for gardeners, it's decorated with morning glory flowers and features a glass well that she can fill with sand and water. Once these materials evaporate, they attract butterflies to feed on the remaining minerals.

$45 | Uncommon Goods

16. Custom Locket

Celebrate the special bond between you and your grandma with this custom locket. It has space for two photos inside and can be engraved with her name or a short message on the outside. Our suggestion? Fill it with a throwback photo of you and her on one side and a wedding photo on the other.

From $89 | LOVELOX

17. Monogrammed Mug

Here's a gift for a grandmother of the bride or groom who loves a fresh brew. This glazed stoneware mug is decorated with a whimsical pattern of birds, flowers and animals, with her first initial in gold. Pair it with her favorite coffee beans or tea to round out this thoughtful thank-you gift.

$14 | Anthropologie

18. Custom Letter Pillow

If you're planning to write a letter to your mom on your wedding day, why not pen one for your grandma too? This custom letter pillow is the perfect way to showcase your feelings. It can be personalized with any title and up to seven lines of text, so there's lots of space for a heartfelt note or even a short poem.

$55 | Personalization Mall

19. Thoughtful Care Package

This cozy care package is a gift any grandma of the bride or groom will appreciate. It's filled with goodies like a soft blanket, hot chocolate, fuzzy socks and a mug. There's even an option to add a retro-inspired Bluetooth speaker so your grammy can crank out the tunes when she's getting ready.

From $69 | Etsy

20. Nail Polish Set

Shopping for a glamorous grandma? Help her keep her mani intact with this set of iridescent nail polishes. It includes four seashell-themed colors that can be worn alone or layered together for added shimmer. Each one is long-wearing, easy to remove and doesn't require a UV lamp, so they're simple to use.

$36 | Olive & June

21. Personalized Photo Frame

While any close family member will appreciate a wedding photo gift, we think your grandma will love it the most. Once you receive your official photographs, print one off for her and present it in this personalized frame. It's made from natural oak wood and can be customized with your wedding details and her title, making it the perfect gift for the grandmother of the bride or groom. She'll definitely find a place for this on the mantle.

From $17 | Etsy

22. Plush Throw Blanket

Does your grandma like to nap during the day? Help her rest before the celebrations kick off with this plush throw blanket. It's made from 100% recycled polyester and features a knotted fringe detail for added texture. Be warned: It's so soft and cozy that you'll be tempted to snag one for yourself.

$45 | Nordstrom

23. Elegant Brooch

A brooch is a classic wedding gift your grandmother can wear on the big day. This floral accessory is inspired by the renowned goldsmith Peter Fabergé (who created precious Easter eggs for royalty) and will add an elegant touch to her dress, lapel or bag. It features lily-of-the-valley flowers made from freshwater pearls with accents of colored enamel and glimmering gold.

$85 | The Met Store

24. Cute Tote Bag

This cute tote bag will give your grandma somewhere to stash all her essentials. It's made from cotton canvas and printed with a playful message that reads, "Important Grandma Stuff." Fill it with other small gifts, like her favorite sweets, accessories or cosmetics, for an added element of surprise.

$22 | Amazon

25. Keepsake Ornament

When it comes to choosing gifts for the grandmother of the bride or groom, remember it's the thought that counts. This keepsake ornament is a simple token of appreciation she'll be delighted to hang on her wall or holiday tree. It's shaped like a heart and comes printed with the message: "Today a bride, tomorrow a wife, forever your granddaughter." You can also add your name for an even more personalized finish.

From $24 | Etsy