The Knot's Official Guidebook for COVID-19 Wedding Help
As couples globally are facing the COVID-19 pandemic, taking the right actions and navigating this ever-evolving scenario is proving to be challenging for many. Like you, here at The Knot, our teams are making daily decisions through the lens of how to best keep our couples, employees and partners safe and healthy. So, as you're planning your wedding during the coronavirus pandemic, know that we're here for you. We'll continue to update our guide to planning a COVID-19 wedding as new information is available from the CDC and WHO, as well as from experts within the wedding industry.
In addition to the COVID wedding ideas and resources below, we've updated The Knot Wedding Planner App with new COVID-specific features to help you adapt to postponement, rescheduling and more. We've also created an interactive map to give you state-by-state guidance.
Stay up to date on the most recent capacity guidelines and travel restrictions across the U.S.A. with our interactive map.
Visit the Covid Guidelines MapRemember that you're not alone right now. Many couples have been impacted, countless weddings have been postponed, and we know it's a challenging time for so many impacted by this pandemic. We want to be here for you every step of the way. Because love most certainly isn't canceled, and that includes the joyful journey of planning your wedding.
1. Staying Organized While Planning a Wedding During COVID
For those wondering how to plan a wedding during COVID, we've got you covered. Whether you're just engaged and planning from the start, looking for logistical help on how to postpone, or hosting a safe and small minimony now with a big celebration down the road, our tools for planning a wedding during COVID make it all easy.
Recently Engaged Couples
Don't let COVID take away any of that newly engaged glow. Kickstart your planning journey with The Knot's Wedding Checklist.
Trust us, there's still plenty that can be accomplished at home and via video chat. But first, take a moment to bask in that newly-engaged glow.
Congratulations! This is a milestone moment in your life, so you shouldn't feel guilty about celebrating your engagement and future wedding, even amid the coronavirus pandemic.
According to the CDC, group gatherings should be limited in size to reduce the spread. What does this mean for weddings during and after COVID? Here's what industry experts say.
Postponing Your Date
Trust us, you're not alone here: 35% of couples who had upcoming weddings have postponed to 2021 or later. Here are our COVID wedding resources for postponing your date due to COVID.
For couples with wedding dates in 2020 and early 2021, we did the math for you. Here's exactly how to shift your planning timeline based on your wedding date.
You've made the tough decision to postpone because of COVID, now what? Here are all the steps you need to take to officially push back your wedding, broken down into a handy checklist.
No one should have to stress over email etiquette right now. To help, we've written out a set of templates so all you have to do is copy and paste. (And hit "send" of course.)
You've made the tough decision to postpone, but to when exactly? Here's a cheat sheet of holidays and other dates to be mindful of as you're rescheduling your date.
Know that what you and your partner are feeling is valid, and your feelings shouldn't be discounted. It's best to face those feelings head on. Here's how to do that.
Get Legally Hitched Now, Celebrate Later
Of couples that got married in 2020, a third of them are planning another celebration. So if you're looking to become legal spouses sooner rather than later, we love the idea of hosting a socially-distanced minimony now, and continuing to plan a larger wedding for the future.
Stay up to date on the most recent capacity guidelines and travel restrictions across the U.S.A. with our interactive map.
Visit the Covid Guidelines MapMeet the minimony, a smaller bash before the actual day. Read up on how to host your own—plus everything else you need to know.
The good news: You can still celebrate with your loved ones. Even better news: We're here to help you do it. Read on to find out how.
Say 'I do' now, celebrate later? We support you! Here are our favorite festive ways to announce your newlywed status.
Take a page out of this influencer's book and steal her epic elopement.
2. Find Your Wedding Pro Team
Planning is still happening—in fact, 52% of couples have booked or hired a vendor since the onset of the pandemic. There's no doubt that as you're planning a wedding amid COVID, having an expert by your side can be a huge help. More than 75% of couples say their vendors were understanding of the unique situation and accommodating to new requests or updates.
Get Started
For couples that have either recently gotten engaged or have yet to find their vendor team, we recommend getting started by browsing wedding venues via the local directory.
Hosting an open-air celebration is one of our favorite COVID wedding ideas.
Because who doesn't love the idea of booking a venue while still wearing pajamas?
Tackle dress shopping, vendor relationships, and more wedding planning during COVID (actually get a lot done).
Plan With Your Pros
Already have your venue locked down? (Way to work that checklist!)
This is all you need to put together your wedding pro team.
Or let's be real, while snuggled up on the couch.
How to Support Your Vendors During COVID
Your wedding pros are always deserving of a little TLC, but especially now during the coronavirus pandemic.
First things first: Postpone and plan for the future, don't cancel.
Our favorite ways for showing your vendors some love—which is a good thing to do now, but a great idea always.
From dress designers and bridal salons shifting to mask production, to venues providing shelter for healthcare professionals, our wedding vendor community is truly an inspiration.
3. Celebrate Your COVID Wedding Virtually
This year, celebrating your love may look a little different—and that's okay! Remember what's important: Celebrating this special milestone moment with your friends, family and people most important to you.
Communicate With Guests
According to a recent study by The Knot, which surveyed people who were supposed to attend a wedding amid the coronavirus pandemic, 71% of guests say it's important to receive information on health and safety measures before RSVP-ing. Even more specifically, 63% of guests want to know your mask policy, and 60% want to know the size of the guest list. Here's how to keep that communication clear and straightforward.
With all that's going on, having a centralized location for all your COVID wedding updates and virtual event details is critical. The Wedding Website was never so important, TBH. You can even add an FAQ page to answer all of guests' potential questions.
Make sure guests don't miss a thing! Send text and email notifications for major updates to your Wedding Website. Our favorite part? Those email updates will match your website design, so they'll be right on theme.
Hosting a COVID wedding, full of masks, socially-distanced seating and other health and safety measures? Love it. Here are the best ways to let guests know about all those great precautions ahead of time.
Throw a Virtual Wedding Event
For couples looking to get married late 2020/early 2021, 43% are planning to add a virtual component for guests that can't attend in person. Spoiler alert: We love this trend! Here's how to pull it off without a hitch.
Including your livestream/broadcast link on your website makes it super easy for your guests to dial in to your virtual wedding. (Psst! You can even add an FAQ page.)
Ensure their virtual celebration goes off without a glitch with our top tips—from creating a virtual dress code to designating a 'streaming administrator' for your event.
Here's what couples and guests should know about choosing attire for a Zoom wedding—and the mistakes to avoid.
4. Invite Friends and Family to Celebrate With You
We've got your COVID wedding covered, no matter where you are in your journey: Just engaged, postponed, recently wed—and everything in-between.
Start by browsing save-the-dates, wedding invitations, day-of stationery and thank-you cards in your style, and sample any design from home with our free sample pack.
So you can order with confidence, and get a free reprint on your wedding paper should your wedding day details change.
Postponed weddings amid COVID have resulted in a new type of announcement: Meet the change-the-date, a more flexible sibling of the save-the-date.
Where do wedding gifts and registry fall into all of this? We know there are a ton of questions and a lot of confusion surrounding wedding gift etiquette amid the COVID pandemic — here, we dig into the answers and the guidance.
If you haven't created your registry yet, there's no better time like the present with everyone spending more time at home. Choose from themed collections or even register for a Cash Fund.
Not sure what to put on your registry, exactly? No sweat. We've outlined everything you and your future spouse might need for your newlywed nest.
We know, asking for wedding gifts might feel a bit strange right now, but trust us—you're not alone. We're answering all those tricky registry-related FAQs.
Having a registry doesn't necessarily mean you only have to ask for physical gifts. Here's how your wedding can support a good cause.
While The Knot Registry is already super easy to navigate, there are ways you can optimize your registry for friends and family's use. Consider these our insider registry secrets.
The pandemic has thrown so many etiquette rules in limbo. Consider this your source of truth for the best ways to get your wedding gift wish list in front of the right people.
6. For the Guests: Attending In-Person or Virtually
With so many weddings impacted by the coronavirus, wedding guests are likely asking very similar questions about next steps. Here's what to do as a COVID wedding guest, what to say (what not to say) and how to address even the most commonplace questions like gift etiquette for a postponed wedding.
Whether you plan to attend IRL, virtually, or just by sending good vibes on the day of, keep up to date with wedding plans through the couple's Wedding Website.
As a friend or family member, the most important thing you can do is show support.
You were supposed to be in a wedding that just got postponed—what to do? First things first, be there for your friend. .
A Guide to Being an IRL Guest
Couples themselves are having to scramble and make new plans amid the pandemic to comply with local guidelines, so what's a wedding guest to do?
Here, our handy COVID wedding etiquette guide for those guests who have a wedding on their calendar in the coming weeks or months.
Stay up to date on the most recent capacity guidelines and travel restrictions across the U.S.A. with our interactive map.
Visit the Covid Guidelines MapFind the perfect mask to match whatever you're wearing with our shoppable guide to wedding masks for guests, including everything from simple designs to bold colors.
Wedding Gift Etiquette Amid COVID
Trust us: Your engaged friends who just had to postpone their wedding due to COVID could use a wedding gift now more than ever.
Looking to give a special couple in your life a little happiness right now? We love that! Share the love and send a gift through their registry.
Remember that it's the thought that counts. Plus, we break down exactly when to give a gift based on COVID-specific scenarios, including virtual weddings, elopements and more.
Where do wedding gifts fall in all of this? We know there are a ton of questions surrounding gift and registry etiquette. Here, we dig into the answers.
Show Support from Afar
While hugs and coffee dates might be off limits due to social distancing, being there for a friend isn't.
Here's how to show some kindness to those people in your life who are dealing with the stress of postponing their day.
If social distancing has thrown a wrench in your pre-wedding event plans, here's how to still make the to-be-wed in your life feel celebrated. Plus, our favorite virtual bachelorette party and bridal shower games (that are actually fun).
7. Love and Your Relationship in Quarantine
People are actually feeling stronger in their relationships as a result of social distancing and spending more time together, according to a recent study, but that doesn't mean this time is without struggles. Below, find our expert advice for navigating and maintaining a healthy relationship through it all.
While one might think that quarantining together isn't ideal for romance, there are definitely ways to make the most of your time together.
Here's what couples are going through, and how to work through those common issues.
It's time to #takebackthedate in the time of weddings and coronavirus. Here are our favorite ideas for making the day feel celebrated.
Our favorite tips for showing your S.O. your appreciation during this trying time, from ordering their favorite food to simply putting down your phone and actively listening.
Dinner and a movie on the couch is great and all, but sometimes you've got to spice things up. (Luxury spa night, hello!)
If you're looking for permission to do a little #treatyoself splurge, this is it.
The shelter-in-place and stay-at-home guidances are putting many couples in closer proximity than normal, which could have an impact on your relationship.
"Turns out that my husband knew how to clean thoroughly this whole time."
Pop the popcorn and grab your sweats—you've got a very important date with the couch.
A honeymoon at home, of course! Here are our favorite ideas and top tips for pulling it off—no passport required.
8. Additional Resources
Despite the challenges of COVID-19, love has ultimately prevailed: 71% of couples with weddings scheduled for 2020 found a way to get married regardless of how it looked and 76% have had some type of post-ceremony celebration with close family and friends.
COVID Wedding Ideas and Advice
Our mission: To make your COVID wedding as 'gram worthy as possible.
Plus, real couples who rocked them in style.
Postponing your wedding doesn't mean sacrificing your aesthetic. If you want to adjust your palette to align with certain times of year, there are ways to do that.
These will totally work with the rest of your wedding's decor.
Help guests stay safe and sanitized with these super cute ideas.
Plus, alternative COVID wedding ideas for what to do instead.
It feels like we're on our phones now more than ever, which makes it pretty easy to obsessively scroll through flawless wedding photos and feel all kinds of envy as a result. Avoid the spiral — here's how.
Planning a wedding during a pandemic is hard—it's okay to admit that.
Firsthand advice from one bride's experience of cutting her guest list for COVID.
If your wedding guest list is taking a hit due to social distancing guidelines, we're here to help you navigate those uncomfortable conversations.
We spoke to the experts to determine which kinds of coverage are most helpful right now.
We tapped hospitality experts to find out exactly how airline travel, resorts and hotels, and honeymoon experiences are adapting to a post-pandemic world.
Get Attire and Beauty Help
Even while home, the shopping hasn't stopped for some. With local bridal salons and businesses of all types evolving to digital experiences, your dress and other at-home styling tips are simply a click away. The same applies to beauty advice, too. Now is the best time to work on upkeep without considering drastic transformations. Leave that to the pros.
Bridal salons are bracing for a new normal—here's what to expect.
Have questions about your wedding gown and shopping amid COVID-19? Thanks to a few boutiques, we've got all the answers for you.
Spoiler alert: Not in plastic.
Get computer-camera ready for your virtual bridal shower or minimony with this advice straight from the experts.
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